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Shelbylynn

Member, Female, 28, from Fresno, California

If I laugh pretty hard occasionally my right ear will make a weird noise or something. AND IT SCARES me everytime. I think allergies. Nov 25, 2023

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    1. Shelbylynn
      Shelbylynn
      Was at a restaurant for 3 hours. They're louder than I remember. I think my phone db reader is off.it was saying 66 and it felt like 75-80
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      2. tracyNYC
        tracyNYC
        After a year of Covid quarantine, etc., I'm having difficulty getting used to "normal" noise and activity levels. It all seems so loud and overwhelming now. Perhaps you are experiencing that, too?
        Jun 12, 2021
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      3. Shelbylynn
        Shelbylynn
        @tracyNYC i think so. When I first developed t everything locked down not too long after. I was able to control my surroundings and now I am thrust back into normal life with its normal volume. I'm still trying to get used to it and not let my anxiety warp my perception.
        Jun 13, 2021
    2. Shelbylynn
      Shelbylynn
      Why do delayed spikes have to exist, isn't that kind of sick? Anytime we are exposed to loud we have to wonder for weeks
      1. buttercake
        buttercake
        Did you get a delayed spike after your friend's party?
        Jun 8, 2021
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      2. Shelbylynn
        Shelbylynn
        @buttercake so far so good. Haven't noticed it being louder. I know I'm paying attention to it more so that's annoying, but it's suspiciously ok.
        Jun 9, 2021
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    3. Shelbylynn
      Shelbylynn
      My t is same leaving the party but I know it can delay spike, but it's odd to me bc when I got t initially it was from concert. Never left
    4. Shelbylynn
      Shelbylynn
      I went to the party for about 2 hours, snuck away to bathroom as much as I could, and used high fidelity plugs the entire time. Left early
      1. buttercake
        buttercake
        You'll be alright.
        Jun 6, 2021
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      2. Shelbylynn
        Shelbylynn
        Jun 8, 2021
    5. Shelbylynn
      Shelbylynn
      I have a friends birthday party to go to likely music and socializing and I'm actually kinda scared by the idea of loud music.
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      2. Shelbylynn
        Shelbylynn
        @twa its crazy how all kinds of celebrations are just way too loud
        Jun 6, 2021
      3. Shelbylynn
        Shelbylynn
        @ASilverLight ive been kind of embarrassed by how much tinnitus bothers me.
        Jun 6, 2021
      4. Shelbylynn
        Shelbylynn
        @buttercake took ur advice and took as many breaks as I could for as long as I could inside
        Jun 6, 2021
    6. Shelbylynn
      Shelbylynn
      I miss loud social events for once. Is everything really screwed forever? Anyone at least goes to see a movie?
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      3. kingsfan
        kingsfan
        I feel the same as you do. Things are starting to open back up and I really want to go to Disneyland. Will I ever be able to go again? =/

        Hell.. will I ever be able to go on an actual date as well?
        May 31, 2021
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      4. Lurius
        Lurius
        I will go to see a movie, definately - but with hearing protection from now on.
        May 31, 2021
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      5. Jebbis
        Jebbis
        I have a friend who does not have tinnitus (he actually has hearing damage) and he said the theater was way too loud, even for him. Also, pro tip, if you ask an attendant to turn the volume down they most likely will
        May 31, 2021
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    7. Shelbylynn
      Shelbylynn
      Put the tiniest amount of hydrocortisone in my ear canal to see if it'll help my itchy problem. I keep scratching in my sleep
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    8. Shelbylynn
      Shelbylynn
      Getting my tetanus booster today. They ask me if I wanna renew it every time.....
    9. Shelbylynn
      Shelbylynn
      Changed to more of a pure tone (which I'm not used to) but now it's kinda chopping again. But it seems like it wants to pure. I'm tired
    10. Shelbylynn
      Shelbylynn
      Had to pick up a rental car didn't realize the lot was next to a train station and a train blew its horn while I was getting it outside fml
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      3. Shelbylynn
        Shelbylynn
        @Lucifer i haven't been keeping up with it as much as I should. My tinnitus hasn't spiked yet but who knows if it will soon or in next couple days. But hopefully I'll be ok
        Apr 13, 2021
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      4. Shelbylynn
        Shelbylynn
        @Lucifer and I'll always be hopeful for a treatment for us
        Apr 13, 2021
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      5. Lucifer
        Lucifer
        Just be careful. If it hasn’t spiked in a week or so you should be fine.
        Apr 13, 2021
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    11. Shelbylynn
      Shelbylynn
      I should start taking those protective vitamin cocktails
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    12. Shelbylynn
      Shelbylynn
      Freaked myself out cause can't tell if I have a more metallic high noise added to the mix? Like hm has that been there before? T sucks
    13. Shelbylynn
      Shelbylynn
      2nd moderna today :) will update if tinnitus changes
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      2. Forever hopeful
        Forever hopeful
        Good luck. Fingers crossed.
        Apr 10, 2021
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      3. Shelbylynn
        Shelbylynn
        @Forever hopeful thank you! No tinnitus change to report! But it did make me feel fluish for the day after. Today I'm almost 100% better :)
        Apr 12, 2021
    14. Shelbylynn
      Shelbylynn
      I'm getting my second shot of moderna tomorrow and I'm a bit nervous both for just feeling sick and also for my tinnitus :/
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      3. Shelbylynn
        Shelbylynn
        @Lucifer nope! No change from the first one. I also didn't feel many side effects. Sore arm and a little clammy that night but could have been nerves too. Other than that was 100%
        Apr 9, 2021
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      4. Shelbylynn
        Shelbylynn
        @twa hopefully it goes over well!
        Apr 9, 2021
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      5. Oabmarcus
        Oabmarcus
        i got mine last friday, yesterday was hell, high fever, but today everything is fine. If anything T is lower than before, go figure.
        Jun 19, 2021
    15. Shelbylynn
      Shelbylynn
      My normal t sound mutes itself for a semi second before fleeting t (high eee) then gradually turns down+ transfers to reg t? So it CAN mute?
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      2. Forever hopeful
        Forever hopeful
        My bilateral T does that too. It could be completely quiet and then it will weather and be really loud and then get quiet again and then really loud. It can do it within minutes. It changes constantly. And I have no hearing loss in that air. The air that I have hearing loss and it’s a more steady town that never changes
        Apr 8, 2021
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      3. Forever hopeful
        Forever hopeful
        And it is so annoying..................
        Apr 8, 2021
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        Apr 17, 2021
    16. Shelbylynn
      Shelbylynn
      Got in a minor fender bender/whiplashed me and my back is giving me some pain. I see pain killers in my future: hope it doesn't worsen t
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      2. Shelbylynn
        Shelbylynn
        Apr 3, 2021
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      3. Guywithapug
        Guywithapug
        Sorry to hear that!! Hope all is well :))
        Apr 5, 2021
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      4. Shelbylynn
        Shelbylynn
        @Guywithapug thank you! I'm feeling much much better and I'm taking the car in to get fixed tomorrow. :-)
        Apr 12, 2021
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    17. Shelbylynn
      Shelbylynn
      anyone else pretend their tinnitus is something in the physical background to fall asleep? I pretend mine is a loud electronic or cicadas
    18. Shelbylynn
      Shelbylynn
      Kinda nervous. Thursday I have my first dental checkup/cleaning appt since getting tinnitus. I think she does manual old school cleaning
    19. Shelbylynn
      Shelbylynn
      The spike in my left ear is trying to steal the show from my right ear, so selfish of it.
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      2. Ilias T
        Ilias T
        The spikes are the real enemy. We would all be fine with just a minor ring. Not sure if that's your face in your profile, but can we use that beauty to make a cure? It would be 100% effective.
        Feb 19, 2021
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    20. Shelbylynn
      Shelbylynn
      I'm very grateful to everyone on this forum who have made this transition in my life much easier. Sincerely. I was so panicked. Now I cope.
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      2. aot
        aot
        So happy for you!
        Jan 20, 2021
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      3. Shelbylynn
        Shelbylynn
        @aot thank you! Of course it's an ongoing process and it's not something that can be definitive. Hope I continue on this way though and others can too
        Feb 1, 2021
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    21. Shelbylynn
      Shelbylynn
      Someone made a lot rip with their car modification. I think sound mods for cars have to be the most annoying thing. It's actually painful.
      1. ALS, Anniz, SadMan and 6 others like this.
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      3. Steph1710
        Steph1710
        The noise used to really make me cross even before I had T and H. There's no bloody need for them to be so loud!
        Jan 10, 2021
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      4. Shelbylynn
        Shelbylynn
        @Lucifer i wouldn't be surprised if they were where I live in California. But possibly not enforced
        Jan 20, 2021
      5. Shelbylynn
        Shelbylynn
        @Steph1710 yes me too! Now when I hear them from even far away I duck and cover lol
        Jan 20, 2021
    22. Shelbylynn
      Shelbylynn
      I took excederine for a headache. T seems louder than usual but I'll just distract myself as much as possible. Been ok lately. Used to it
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    23. Shelbylynn
      Shelbylynn
      I dried my roots a little with a blow dryer. Will report back. It averages 70 dB. Is there a way to dry waist length hair in the winter lol
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      2. Kriszti
        Kriszti
        I have lots of hair, around waist length as well. I blow dry my hair in muffs after trying to dry them thoroughly with towels. #highlife
        Dec 9, 2020
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      3. Shelbylynn
        Shelbylynn
        Jan 20, 2021
    24. Shelbylynn
      Shelbylynn
      I can't lie, I miss headphones. Currently walking a few miles and can't help but think a podcast or audiobook would have made this better
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      3. Steph1710
        Steph1710
        I had the same thought yesterday.
        Oct 19, 2020
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      4. ASilverLight
        ASilverLight
        I miss em too. Cycling to work without music isn't the same.
        Oct 19, 2020
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      5. Shelbylynn
        Shelbylynn
        @aot you're a brave one! My version of that is doing it on a night drive.
        Jan 20, 2021
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    25. Shelbylynn
      Shelbylynn
      syringing ears make t worse? I lightly syringed my ear because I have a random, what I believe is a nail polish chip by my ear drum. Yikes
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      2. Bill Bauer
        Bill Bauer
        Yes, syringing can cause a permanent spike.
        Sep 29, 2020
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      3. Shelbylynn
        Shelbylynn
        @Bill Bauer yikes. Need to figure out a way to get this thing out or else I'll live with a paint chip in my ear lol. No spike thankfully.
        Oct 8, 2020
      4. Shelbylynn
        Shelbylynn
        @all to gain ty. I avoid messing with my ears as much as possible now. I sleep with socks on my hands because I involuntarily scratch my ears when I'm asleep :(
        Oct 8, 2020
    26. LilSass
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      2. Shelbylynn
        Shelbylynn
        Thank you Sarah this definitely does help!
        Aug 22, 2020
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      3. LilSass
        LilSass
        How r u doing these days? I'm 9 mos now with no real improvement. I do get quiet days sometimes. This is hard.
        Aug 22, 2020
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      4. Shelbylynn
        Shelbylynn
        @LilSass I've been doing a lot better with coping with it. The t doesn't change as much as my feelings on it do. Unless I get sick etc. it's so hard. Harder than people unlike us know.
        Oct 8, 2020
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    27. Shelbylynn
      Shelbylynn
      I think I'm gonna be brave and take my blood pressure Meds (lisinopril). So many meds are ototoxic and I can't put my health off any more.
      1. Julien87
        Julien87
        It's probably best, yes. And some drugs are labelled ototoxic even when the risk of ototoxicity is extremely low.
        Aug 13, 2020
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      2. Julien87
        Julien87
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        Shelbylynn
        Aug 22, 2020
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    28. Shelbylynn
      Shelbylynn
      I have a fear of getting covid and my t getting Worse more than just being afraid of covid. That's kinda twisted isn't it.
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      2. ASilverLight
        ASilverLight
        Same though
        Aug 7, 2020
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      3. Shelbylynn
        Shelbylynn
        Aug 22, 2020
      4. Mathew Gould
        Mathew Gould
        I got my rosacea from covid (dec 2020) I think.. Yeah I'm not sure if I should get the vaccine now or not.
        Jun 13, 2021
    29. Shelbylynn
      Shelbylynn
      Really hope this doesn't get worse from being exposed to two loud alarms in a week
      1. WillBeNimble
        WillBeNimble
        Aug 5, 2020
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        Shelbylynn
        Aug 7, 2020
    30. Shelbylynn
      Shelbylynn
      And it went off. I jump up too get my muffs but they're hard to do put on fast as their shooting ones. I took magnesium.
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    Gender:
    Female
    Birthday:
    May 6, 1995 (Age: 28)
    Location:
    Fresno, California
    Occupation:
    Vintage clothing dealer
    Tinnitus Since:
    1/2019
    Cause of Tinnitus:
    Concert/lifelong music abuse
    :cyclops:Why hello there, and welcome....
    To the house of cicadas that never shut up and to the Television set to static which resides in my head and never turns off.
    I'm writing this "about me" in a moment of sustained anxiety and over whether I'll spike so that should already tell you a lot about the struggles of tinnitus and me. Sometimes it's hard to tell who is more important in this equation the t or me?
    I hope it is me.
    26 years old and as of June 8 at 1am (the time I am writing this to you dear reader) my tinnitus is moderate. Subject to change. Indefinitely.
    I hope that in some ways we can foster a sense of community here and in the least have a support group for a symptom that many don't understand just how debilitating and isolating and it can be.
    I wasn't always this scared or this doom and gloom, in fact here is a real life pic of me before getting tinnitus ->:rockingbanana:. Yep. That idiotic going to concerts, clubs, you name it. If it was loud- I was there. Never wearing or knowing how important war protection is. Young and reckless and thinking tinnitus was for older people.
    If you ever need me shoot me a message I will try to respond in a timely manner. I may forget that I opened it though and will respond months later when it's no longer any use to you. But I will try! :p