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Shelbylynn

Member, Female, 28, from Fresno, California

If I laugh pretty hard occasionally my right ear will make a weird noise or something. AND IT SCARES me everytime. I think allergies. Nov 25, 2023

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Jan 24, 2024
    1. Shelbylynn
      Shelbylynn
      Why is unrolling packing tape measuring at like 90db on meter. I either gotta invest in low noise ones or use muffs. Wouldn’t have guessed
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      3. Shelbylynn
        Shelbylynn
        @Stacken77 I only didn't because I don't want to overprotect and cause myself sensitivies. :) BUT I will say, since I'm sending out packages frequently I may do it more now. I KNOW. 90? it's TAPE. HOW. I'm shocked that a "soft whisper" is labeled as 30.....
        Jan 3, 2022
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      4. Stacken77
        Stacken77
        @Shelbylynn Don't worry about "overprotection". We don't have to be exposed to sounds over 80+ dB to have our tolerance under control. If we just spend most of the day without hearing protection indoors, I think we're fine.
        Jan 3, 2022
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      5. AbeS
        AbeS
        No wonder my ears felt sore then after packing some things I sold the other month. :/ And that was with earmuffs.
        Jan 3, 2022
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    2. Shelbylynn
      Shelbylynn
      not really lookin forward to the celebration of NYE just due to the amount of illegal fireworks that get set off above our heads; happy ny
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      2. Damocles
        Damocles
        Coming to your family's ranch next year also.

        London on NYE can go f*ck itself.
        Jan 2, 2022
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      3. Shelbylynn
        Shelbylynn
        Jan 3, 2022
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      4. Damocles
        Damocles
        I'll bring the alcohol-free alcohol, and the caffeine free coffee (for me), because don't want to risk a spike...

        It's gonna be great!! ヽ(★^O^★)ノ
        Jan 6, 2022
    3. Shelbylynn
      Shelbylynn
      Anyone have a preferred sound level meter? I bought one on Amazon but it’s likely some cheap $20 meter so idk the accuracy lol
      1. buttercake
        buttercake
        Does is it need to be calibrated?
        Dec 29, 2021
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      2. Shelbylynn
        Shelbylynn
        @buttercake maybe but I don't see the settings to do that etc. But i tested it next to the app i had and it seemed ta least comparable.
        Dec 31, 2021
      3. NYCGuy
        NYCGuy
        Those can help give you some ideas but don't expect them to be very accurate.
        Jan 7, 2022
    4. Shelbylynn
      Shelbylynn
      moms dog was out of control I had to answer the door she picks him up and stands there while I talk to he visitor while barking in my ear :(
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      3. Shelbylynn
        Shelbylynn
        @Lurius now I’m going to be scared of infants, never thought I’d see the day
        Dec 28, 2021
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      4. Shelbylynn
        Shelbylynn
        @Steph1710 haha! I think I skipped a chapter
        @Wrfortiscue yes I hope so. I thought all noise induced was bound to be unstable or get worse. I’m not sure I completely understand the variety potentials/ outcomes of noise induced t
        Dec 28, 2021
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      5. Shelbylynn
        Shelbylynn
        @Steph1710 your tinnitus sounds like it wants to give you a whole performance. Hope you are well
        Dec 28, 2021
    5. Astro
      Astro
      Hi :]
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      2. Damocles
        Damocles
        Hi :D
        Dec 23, 2021
      3. Shelbylynn
        Shelbylynn
        Hello :-)
        Dec 25, 2021
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    6. Shelbylynn
      Shelbylynn
      This is the second time I’ve touched the phone screen with my cheek enabling speakerphone while on regular ear to phone call. WHY APPLE
      1. Wrfortiscue
        Wrfortiscue
        Yeah I do speaker now low volume away from me because of this reason
        Dec 23, 2021
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      2. Shelbylynn
        Shelbylynn
        @Wrfortiscue im gonna start doing this now, completing the next step to becoming more like my mother
        Dec 25, 2021
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      3. Shelbylynn
        Shelbylynn
        @Wrfortiscue Oh, I figured out a way to disable the call menu while on an active call so my face doesn't press the speaker button inadvertently anymore. thankfully.
        Dec 31, 2021
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    7. Shelbylynn
      Shelbylynn
      Just discovered one of my guitar strings popped/snapped when I was sleeping. I thought the loud pop was a plastic water bottle. I was out
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      3. Shelbylynn
        Shelbylynn
        @kingsfan at the bridge. Probably worn. Also It's winter now and i thought maybe the rapid temp change without me tuning etc may have snapped it.
        Dec 31, 2021
      4. Shelbylynn
        Shelbylynn
        @Lurius Wow! Not only is that loud but that sounds frightening and dangerous. I mean the shattering glass and all
        Dec 31, 2021
      5. Lurius
        Lurius
        I didn't get up, but in my mind I was like "WTF WAS THAT?!", however at the time I was on olanzapine so I was pretty drugged and even stuff like that wasn't enough to make me do anything. The fire alam, though....that was something else.
        Dec 31, 2021
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    8. Shelbylynn
      Shelbylynn
      No bc why does the apple iPhone vibrate when I receive a voicemail whilst on the telephone with someone??? Like yr gonna vibrate NOW?
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    9. Shelbylynn
      Shelbylynn
      Saw friends of mine who I was 2 worried to tell about my t. One friend told the others and they were so understanding that I cried lol. Hope
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      2. LukeYoung
        LukeYoung
        I’ve told most of my friends etc, but they always forget, and it’s frustrating when they wanna do something that’s loud and I have to explain again. People will never understand T until they get it.
        Dec 11, 2021
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      3. Shelbylynn
        Shelbylynn
        @LukeYoung one of my closest friends remembers but I’m glad she still invites me to bars etc because it gives me the chance to at least make the decision and feel included, but yes it’s very hard for people to understand until it happens. I warn my friends to protect their hearing
        Dec 12, 2021
    10. Shelbylynn
      Shelbylynn
      Fml my moms cars on star blasted my ears freaking panicking.
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      3. Shelbylynn
        Shelbylynn
        @Wrfortiscue hi, is that something I can take regularly lol, too much stuff happens to me too. Who knew life was so noisy :p
        Dec 11, 2021
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      4. Wrfortiscue
        Wrfortiscue
        Some say it helps :shrugs:
        Dec 11, 2021
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      5. Shelbylynn
        Shelbylynn
        Dec 12, 2021
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    11. Shelbylynn
      Shelbylynn
      Job hunting but every job has a headset or is loud -___-
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      3. Shelbylynn
        Shelbylynn
        @Matchbox i have a BA in psychology :| lol I should go back to school
        Dec 14, 2021
      4. Shelbylynn
        Shelbylynn
        Dec 14, 2021
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      5. Shelbylynn
        Shelbylynn
        @Charburchar youre good! I welcome conversation since we all are in the same boat! So many jobs require headsets or constant noise lol
        Dec 14, 2021
    12. Shelbylynn
      Shelbylynn
      Learned my lesson no joint 2person cooking without hearing protection. forget people clang their Dish-ware. I swear my head rang like a bell
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      2. Damocles
        Damocles
        For real.
        Dec 4, 2021
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      3. Shelbylynn
        Shelbylynn
        @Damocles i always cringed at the clangs even before tinnitus . Makes my skin crawl
        Dec 5, 2021
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    13. Shelbylynn
      Shelbylynn
      Occlusion effect sux!
      1. TheDanishGirl
        TheDanishGirl
        It sure does! :/ I cant take walks with ear plugs on or ear muffs.
        Nov 26, 2021
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      2. Shelbylynn
        Shelbylynn
        @TheDanishGirl the walking is the worst part! The second worst is talking.
        Nov 28, 2021
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    14. Shelbylynn
      Shelbylynn
      Have any of you used retinol on your face (Retin A, tretinoin , differin- adapalene)? I just put on differin gel and realized it could bad.
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      3. Steph1710
        Steph1710
        @Shelbylynn you will probably be fine. Me, well I would never touch it again. It's not something I would recommend using regularly either. Anyway - best of luck! X
        Nov 23, 2021
      4. Damocles
        Damocles
        Me too @Shelbylynn.

        Maybe I should use some.... ( • ⍨ •)
        Nov 24, 2021
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      5. Shelbylynn
        Shelbylynn
        @Damocles apparently it’s really great for skin :)
        Nov 28, 2021
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    15. Shelbylynn
      Shelbylynn
      I have a spike in only one ear but I can’t remember anything particular that would only happen to that side hmmmm
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      2. Damocles
        Damocles
        What side is the spike on, and on what side did you get the Moderna "booster"?
        Nov 16, 2021
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      3. Shelbylynn
        Shelbylynn
        @Damocles different side must have been a fluke, it subsided
        Nov 23, 2021
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    16. Shelbylynn
      Shelbylynn
      Got the moderna booster! Last time no change in t so I’ll see if this is same
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    17. Shelbylynn
      Shelbylynn
      Whoever made ear plugs thank you, I need better ones but at least I have something. Went out to eat and these youthful eateries are crazy
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    18. Shelbylynn
      Shelbylynn
      If I get covid-19 am I doomed that my tinnitus will be worse? I have family that suspects their sick and I have had contact with
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      3. Shelbylynn
        Shelbylynn
        @MBH if it makes you feel any better I had the vaccine and it didn’t change my tinntius :) at all. I’m more afraid of the illness. I’ll update if it changes with illness
        Oct 25, 2021
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      4. Lurius
        Lurius
        You're not doomed but Dirk De Ridder told me 106 out of 1000 people with tinnitus gets worsening from covid.
        Oct 25, 2021
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      5. Shelbylynn
        Shelbylynn
        @Lurius decent odds. Maybe I’ll get lucky for once
        Oct 26, 2021
    19. Matchbox
      Matchbox
      So did you end up getting poked with magical nocovidforme potion?
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      2. Shelbylynn
        Shelbylynn
        Oct 22, 2021
    20. Shelbylynn
      Shelbylynn
      Sometimes my allergies/sinus issues give me a fright cause I can't tell if tingling in my neck/ear is allergy related or t *eyeroll*
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    21. Shelbylynn
      Shelbylynn
      Goin to outdoor event tomorrow, bringing all the hearing protection even if I'm just lookin for food and clothes. You never know!
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    22. Shelbylynn
      Shelbylynn
      Besides t being awful(understated),I hate the way it provokes my ocd/anxiety tendencies and the way we are encouraged to isolate ourselves
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    23. Shelbylynn
      Shelbylynn
      Have any of you had covid and did it make your tinntius worse? Vaccinated or unvaccinated?
      1. Guywithapug
        Guywithapug
        I have not had covid yet, thankfully! However from everything I have read, it appears some do suffer from tinnitus as a long lasting effect. I don't know if it elevates it in people that already have it though. How have you been? :)
        Aug 28, 2021
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      2. Shelbylynn
        Shelbylynn
        @Guywithapug hmm interesting! May have to research it. I have been good so far thank you! glad to hear you are staying well. :)
        Aug 30, 2021
    24. Shelbylynn
      Shelbylynn
      Forget horror films there is nothing that triggers my anxiety like a siren blaring. Or a really loud noise. I'm all shaken up. Hard to sleep
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    25. Shelbylynn
      Shelbylynn
      normal to be freaked out if exposed to a really loud nosie? I was downtown drinking tea and emergency vehicle had sirens on Amplified it.
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      2. Damocles
        Damocles
        yeah @Shelbylynn, very normal.

        Might want to consider wearing hearing protection when you're downtown from now on...
        Aug 7, 2021
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      3. Shelbylynn
        Shelbylynn
        @Damocles i definitely will downtown only bc the way it's set up it makes sirens amplified rather than their normal volume
        Aug 28, 2021
    26. Shelbylynn
      Shelbylynn
      Weirdly I am not spiking in volume but there is a new quality to the tone/sound. Usually I have cricket/shhh. R ear added a new sound :/
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    27. Shelbylynn
      Shelbylynn
      I curate vintage clothes and you'd be surprised @ how loud some thrift and charity shops keep their radios lol. It's like a party???
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    28. Shelbylynn
      Shelbylynn
      Heavy traffic - 80 db Hand held drill -100db Live rock show - 130 db Shotgun blast -170 db Urgent care bathroom toilet flush - ∞ db
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    29. Shelbylynn
      Shelbylynn
      Supposed to quit my birth control pills but now I'm getting worried it'll make me worse off with t :/ anyone got any knowledge ?
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      2. angelsissi
        angelsissi
        I quit them a few months ago and can tell you that my tinnitus didn’t become louder. It fluctuates as always.
        Jun 14, 2021
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      3. Shelbylynn
        Shelbylynn
        @angelsissi thanks for sharing :) that makes me more comfortable to go ahead and quit, I know it's variable and personal to each persons body. But still helps
        Jun 16, 2021
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    30. Shelbylynn
      Shelbylynn
      WTH? Has anyone heard ring when they move? I feel like I'm getting a higher pitched ring e almost metallic ring when I crouch or move? Etd?
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      2. Steph1710
        Steph1710
        @Shelbylynn yeah, I’ve had this from the onset. My T changes with every single movement. I definitely have Etd issues, because I was told by my doctor a while back, before I actually developed T.
        Jun 14, 2021
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      3. Shelbylynn
        Shelbylynn
        It stopped so I'm guessing allergy ENT related. God bodies are so weird
        Jun 14, 2021
      4. Shelbylynn
        Shelbylynn
        @Steph1710 argh that's frustrating. The only time mine sounded tinny was when I had fluid in my middle ear post ear infection. Nasal rinses and Flonase seem to help my Eustachian a lot. Especially the rinse
        Jun 16, 2021
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    Gender:
    Female
    Birthday:
    May 6, 1995 (Age: 28)
    Location:
    Fresno, California
    Occupation:
    Vintage clothing dealer
    Tinnitus Since:
    1/2019
    Cause of Tinnitus:
    Concert/lifelong music abuse
    :cyclops:Why hello there, and welcome....
    To the house of cicadas that never shut up and to the Television set to static which resides in my head and never turns off.
    I'm writing this "about me" in a moment of sustained anxiety and over whether I'll spike so that should already tell you a lot about the struggles of tinnitus and me. Sometimes it's hard to tell who is more important in this equation the t or me?
    I hope it is me.
    26 years old and as of June 8 at 1am (the time I am writing this to you dear reader) my tinnitus is moderate. Subject to change. Indefinitely.
    I hope that in some ways we can foster a sense of community here and in the least have a support group for a symptom that many don't understand just how debilitating and isolating and it can be.
    I wasn't always this scared or this doom and gloom, in fact here is a real life pic of me before getting tinnitus ->:rockingbanana:. Yep. That idiotic going to concerts, clubs, you name it. If it was loud- I was there. Never wearing or knowing how important war protection is. Young and reckless and thinking tinnitus was for older people.
    If you ever need me shoot me a message I will try to respond in a timely manner. I may forget that I opened it though and will respond months later when it's no longer any use to you. But I will try! :p