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Anyone else experiencing tremulous legs + pins and needles throughout lower body while trying to sleep…maybe it’s not even connected to T? Mar 23, 2024

    1. Barry098
      Barry098
      It's easy to smile when things are going well...tinnitus gives us the opportunity to learn how to smile when things seem catastrophic.
      1. Steph1710
        Steph1710
        Jan 2, 2022
    2. Barry098
      Barry098
      In my next life, I want to be tinnitus...you get to stay rent free in a nice place and be able to make as much noise as you want 24/7!
      1. BrOKeN_1, Steph1710, Sentinel and 4 others like this.
      2. BrOKeN_1
        BrOKeN_1
        Lol.. thats why I'm trashing the place! Maybe the asshole will move out!
        Jan 1, 2022
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    3. Barry098
      Barry098
      Having tinnitus is like surviving a shipwreck...if you flail in the water you will drown. The only way to survive is to relax and float.
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    4. Barry098
      Barry098
      Seriously questioning the idea of a loving God...hmm, is there a lesson to be learned here that I am missing?
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      2. Lurius
        Lurius
        I used to be more open-minded and accepting of the possibility. Agnostic, you could say. Tinnitus has put the final nail in that coffin. There is no God, because if he did exist, he would either be incompetent instead of omnipotent, lazy or just pure evil. And neither of those makes any sense, as a deity or higher power would not have or even care about human morals. Conclusion is, there is no God. We're on our own.
        Dec 28, 2021
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    5. Barry098
      Barry098
      6 months in on my second tinnitus voyage...good times!
    6. Barry098
      Barry098
      So...I've never been waterboarded before but, if I had to choose between that vs. another day with Mr.T...well, it wouldn't be a hard choice
    7. Barry098
      Barry098
      Guess he missed me yesterday…because Mr.T is back loud and proud today… and that fool has no pity!
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    8. Barry098
      Barry098
      Had another pretty quiet day. My tinnitus was uncharacteristically masked by a noisy restaurant. These are the moments that keep me going
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    9. Barry098
      Barry098
      Had about 30 seconds of total silence today when on a walk in nature. That was my favorite Christmas present!
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      2. Wrfortiscue
        Wrfortiscue
        Awesome!
        Dec 26, 2021
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    10. Barry098
      Barry098
      Yesterday my tinnitus didn't like the rain so it stayed inside. Today it tried to make up for missing a day.
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    11. Barry098
      Barry098
      Hard to enjoy watching movies without an instrument in my hands to distract me...I miss the days of losing myself in the experience...
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    12. Barry098
      Barry098
      Waking up to another day with my noisy neighbor…
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      2. Gabriel5050
        Gabriel5050
        I know that feeling, buddy. Though usually mine is loud during the evening. And he tends to be quieter in autumn/winter.
        Dec 4, 2021
    13. Barry098
      Barry098
      Waking up with tinnitus each morning feels like preparing to go into a street fight with both hands tied behind my back.
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    14. Barry098
      Barry098
      5 years ago I couldn't handle being in a particular classroom at school because the fan aggravated my tinnitus, now that same fan masks it.
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      2. BrOKeN_1
        BrOKeN_1
        Here here.. I used to hate the sound of crickets. Now they are little angels. Lol
        Dec 2, 2021
    15. Barry098
      Barry098
      Tinnitus is a humbling condition...
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    16. Barry098
      Barry098
      I'm Back!
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      2. Damocles
        Damocles
        Oct 25, 2021
      3. Damocles
        Damocles
        We missed you all week.
        Oct 25, 2021
    17. Barry098
      Barry098
      Peace out everyone!
    18. Barry098
      Barry098
      Keep this in mind if you want to conquer tinnitus...You can't ignore something that you love or something that you hate...
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      3. Barry098
        Barry098
        If you don't feed it, it will starve and lose its power over you...This takes time, patience and a perspective shift.
        Jun 5, 2018
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      4. New Guy
        New Guy
        I hope to get to the point where I can give it less attention. It's going to take time....
        Jun 5, 2018
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      5. Barry098
        Barry098
        You’ll get there. The best advice I can give you is to put one foot in front of the next. Tinnitus was the hardest thing I’ve ever had to deal with, now it has no power over me. It just takes time...hang in there
        Jun 15, 2018
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    19. Barry098
      Barry098
      If you can hang in there for 6 months (granted that feels like an eternity when your brain is buzzing)...you will find peace once again.
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      2. TheDanishGirl
        TheDanishGirl
        For some it takes much longer then 6 months to find peace (habituate) I am nearing 12 months in, and I am not habituated yet.....just saying, I would swap 6 months with 1-2 years.
        Apr 29, 2018
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      3. New Guy
        New Guy
        Getting through the first month was so hard and people new to t should know that's normal. In time you'll get better at dealing with it.
        Apr 29, 2018
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      4. Shera
        Shera
        I'm hitting 18 months and I'm not habituated. Though I am better than I've been and I might be starting the process now.
        Apr 29, 2018
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    20. Barry098
      Barry098
      If you allow it, your brain will figure out how to subjugate the noise. Seems like the end the world when you get it but...
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    21. Barry098
      Barry098
      Anyone who is new to this whole ear ringing thing...Do not fear!
    22. Barry098
      Barry098
      Sunrises, season changes and this very loud sound in my head which becomes unnoticeable when I don't feed it any negative energy
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    23. Barry098
      Barry098
      Sort of like, one of the few constant things in my life...
      1. aura
        aura
        Death, taxes and tinnitus.
        Feb 18, 2022
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    24. Barry098
      Barry098
      A year ago I would have sold my soul for some relief from this miserable condition. Suddenly, I am starting to find it sort of relaxing...
    25. Barry098
      Barry098
      Tinnitus happened...I survived it...now I draw upon the strength I gained in order to deal with challenging people... "Human Tinnitus"
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    Gender:
    Male
    Occupation:
    Musician
    Tinnitus Since:
    02/2017
    Cause of Tinnitus:
    Loud Music
    I'm a musician with some messed up ears...