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Shelbylynn

Member, Female, 28, from Fresno, California

If I laugh pretty hard occasionally my right ear will make a weird noise or something. AND IT SCARES me everytime. I think allergies. Nov 25, 2023

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Jan 24, 2024
    1. Shelbylynn
      Shelbylynn
      I can never tell if my ear discomfort is actually my t reacting to my day or if it's my allergies. Bets are on allergies as it's one ear
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    2. Shelbylynn
      Shelbylynn
      How do u guys deal with smoke detectors at home? This is prob dumb but I legit took mine out of my room. Have to move tho, inspectors comin
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      2. Exit
        Exit
        If you want it legally, put in a used dead battery and insurance is happier.
        Mar 8, 2022
      3. TheDanishGirl
        TheDanishGirl
        @Exit excellent tip! Never thought of that.
        Mar 9, 2022
      4. Damocles
        Damocles
        Yeah this is clever @Exit and @TheDanishGirl. Problem is the damn thing was still beeping in my hand after I had torn it out of the ceiling, removed the battery, cut the wires and smashed it half to pieces; was f*cking indestructible.

        Would be nice if the rest of my electronic appliances worked this well, but then that would mean life not being a sh*t...
        Mar 9, 2022
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    3. Shelbylynn
      Shelbylynn
      Glass is my enemy. I despise glass now.
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      2. Damocles
        Damocles
        For real @Shelbylynn. F*ck glass!

        AND porcelain!

        B*tches!
        Mar 2, 2022
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      3. Rockman
        Rockman
        I went and bought plastic plates. Man makes a big difference
        Mar 2, 2022
      4. Shelbylynn
        Shelbylynn
        @Rockman I like to use those hard plastic microwave ones for this reason too
        Mar 7, 2022
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    4. Shelbylynn
      Shelbylynn
      Is there a lot of modified loud cars where you guys live or is it just me? I’m waiting in the parkinglot in a car, 2 here and my poor ears:(
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      3. makeyourownluck
        makeyourownluck
        Nothing quite like a loud backfiring car to keep you on your toes! Pop pop, bang, pop pop. Listen to my engine getting damaged...
        Mar 1, 2022
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      4. aura
        aura
        Yes. Hate them with a passion.
        Mar 1, 2022
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      5. aura
        aura
        I didn't like them even before having ear problems.
        I was always asking my husband " So are they doing this to their cars on purpose? Like...why?! "
        Mar 1, 2022
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    5. Shelbylynn
      Shelbylynn
      The first time I’ve dropped and shattered a mug on tile floor. I just covered my ears instinctually but yeah. Sigh. Hopefully it’s fine
      1. Barry098
        Barry098
        The way I look at it, those kind of things are bound to happen...My two year old daughter randomly screams at the top of her lungs at least once or twice a week when I pick her up while she has other plans...I just grit my teeth say, so goes life!
        Feb 26, 2022
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    6. Shelbylynn
      Shelbylynn
      Ugh i can’t get my birth control pills for a week, so now I get to have a hormonal change that I really hope doesn’t effect my tinnitus :(
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      3. Shelbylynn
        Shelbylynn
        @Steph1710 Thank you<3 that gives me some piece of mind.
        Feb 22, 2022
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      4. Shelbylynn
        Shelbylynn
        @BuzzyBee I'm not sure. I was on birth control already when I developed tinnitus. I was worried it would make it worse initially but it hasn't had any effect that i know of. But i know getting off meds sometimes makes people spike, but i guess it all depends.
        Feb 22, 2022
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      5. BuzzyBee
        BuzzyBee
        Whatever happens it will probably be temporary.
        Feb 23, 2022
    7. Shelbylynn
      Shelbylynn
      I attempted to vacuum with the peltor x5a muffs for about a minute max. Ehhh I think I’ll use double protection instead, vacuum is LOUD
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      2. Steph1710
        Steph1710
        If I hoover or use any power tools, I wear plugs and muffs! And I don’t do whatever I’m doing for very long.
        Feb 21, 2022
      3. Shelbylynn
        Shelbylynn
        @Steph1710 I'll try that! I despise ear plugs but I'll have to give in lol. My dust mite allergy means I have to vacuum semi frequently. I need to get rid of the carpet.
        Feb 22, 2022
    8. Shelbylynn
      Shelbylynn
      Weird. I just came home and the neighbor was using a small pressure washer thing outside but it didn't seem loud to me. maybe 15 feet away
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    9. Shelbylynn
      Shelbylynn
      Tinntius always seems louder after a busy day but I think it’s just going from being masked to unmasked because I’m in relative silence.
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      2. Watasha
        Watasha
        How do you feel you've habituated since it started two years ago?
        Feb 18, 2022
    10. Shelbylynn
      Shelbylynn
      I hate tinntius. I hate being afraid of noise, of always being in the wrong place, wrong time. I hate the fear of ear pain, t spikes. Hateit
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      3. Shelbylynn
        Shelbylynn
        @ThomasF Thank you, I hope so too, and I hope that for all of us.
        Feb 19, 2022
      4. Shelbylynn
        Shelbylynn
        @Leila awh, thank you. I agree, we need a care button!
        Feb 19, 2022
      5. Shelbylynn
        Shelbylynn
        @Lurius we'll get through this, even if it Suuuuuuucks! lol
        Feb 19, 2022
    11. Shelbylynn
      Shelbylynn
      Ugh someone turned the tv WAY UP for halftime show as I was walking by. Probably like 85 at least. Idk. Hiding now. Hope no spike. Blehhb
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      2. ZFire
        ZFire
        Similar thing happen to me last week actually. I got blasted by my TVs volume at maximum level. Left me really anxious, The experienced pros here assured me that I would be alright. It’s been one week later and I’m still okay. You’ll be okay
        Feb 14, 2022
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      3. Shelbylynn
        Shelbylynn
        @ZFire So far good for me aswell. I mean I'm OK. So that's great. I'm glad you're ok as well. Things like that are so anxiety provoking. Electronics actually stress me out now cause i worry they'll blast meLOL.
        Feb 15, 2022
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      4. Shelbylynn
        Shelbylynn
        @buttercake Blehhb is the vibe when tinnitus is getting ya down.
        Feb 15, 2022
    12. Shelbylynn
      Shelbylynn
      I said I was going to get know my own personal tinnitus better and stop prescribing myself with others t. Anxiety has decreased slightly
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    13. Shelbylynn
      Shelbylynn
      was wearing ear muffs while blow drying the front of my hair with one of those blow dry brush machines but i could hear the vibration?
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      2. Steph1710
        Steph1710
        You should be fine. I do a similar thing and it has never caused an issue.
        Feb 11, 2022
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      3. Shelbylynn
        Shelbylynn
        @Steph1710 thank you !! I appreciate it. What kind of hearing protection do you use? Plugs or muffs?
        Feb 14, 2022
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      4. Steph1710
        Steph1710
        Feb 20, 2022
    14. Shelbylynn
      Shelbylynn
      Dang I wish I would have known about Texas Roadhouse, I live an hour away from one tho. I would have made the trek
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      2. Wrfortiscue
        Wrfortiscue
        It’s loud as hell in there though lol I have gone several times with plugs but it’s about 80-90 db easy
        Feb 8, 2022
      3. Shelbylynn
        Shelbylynn
        Feb 9, 2022
    15. Shelbylynn
      Shelbylynn
      looking 4 sensory friendly screenings near me (lower volume). Screenings are catered towards kids, as if adults don't have disabilities.
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      2. ajc
        ajc
        why are you an autist? can you fix that?
        Feb 8, 2022
      3. Shelbylynn
        Shelbylynn
        @Lurius That's great! It should be everywhere, but I know they likely don't do it because financial reasons. If it doesn't make money, it's not available. It sucks.
        Feb 9, 2022
      4. Shelbylynn
        Shelbylynn
        @ajc I'm not autistic, but I was looking for screenings with lower volume for my hearing/t sake. In the US movie theaters have unregulated volume so it can be really loud and varies from theater to theater, Unlike what I see from other countries who say it's 85 dB average
        Feb 9, 2022
    16. Shelbylynn
      Shelbylynn
      Going through hills to go to beach with etd issues is miserable. I can’t take decongestants cause of heart issues. Sigh
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      3. Uklawyer
        Uklawyer
        What heart issues do you have?
        Feb 4, 2022
      4. Shelbylynn
        Shelbylynn
        @Damocles Thank you that gave me a good laugh. I didn't know I needed to see cookie monster singing that but now i do
        Feb 7, 2022
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      5. Shelbylynn
        Shelbylynn
        @Uklawyer Honestly just genetic high blood pressure i take medication for, but last time I took sudafed it gave me a tachycardia episode for hours so now I stay away from it.
        Feb 7, 2022
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    17. Shelbylynn
      Shelbylynn
      I appreciate all of you who correspond with me and consider you all my tinnitus friends. :)
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      2. Damocles
        Damocles
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        Shelbylynn
        Feb 5, 2022
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    18. Shelbylynn
      Shelbylynn
      So does covid-19 permanently spike t? or is more likely just to spike while sick?
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      3. Shelbylynn
        Shelbylynn
        @ZFire thank you for responding, I was exposed to covid Friday (I normally don’t socialize sigh but the one time I do) so I’m just waiting to see if I end up Ill and stuff. Hopefully it’s a temporary spike. I didn’t spike with a cold until I got an ear infection. So hope it’s similar. And that I don’t get a secondary infection this time!
        Feb 1, 2022
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      4. kingsfan
        kingsfan
        I didn't spike until I started recovering. It's been 3 week since testing negative and the spike hasn't gone away.

        I don't socialize either. Saw my daughter at christmas and that was all it took. She must have gotten it from a birthday dinner a few days before.
        Feb 1, 2022
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      5. MartinPihl
        MartinPihl
        @kingsfan how are you now, in regards to the COVID spike?
        Mar 17, 2022
    19. Shelbylynn
      Shelbylynn
      Friend from out of state visiting, I was invited to bar, but upon hearing my t issues decided to come over 4 drinks instead. Warms my heart!
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      2. DimLeb
        DimLeb
        @DimLeb Yeah. It's hard for them to grasp how one can change so much... I hope my friends finally do, having known me play live music, host parties, go to concerts etc.
        Feb 1, 2022
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      3. Shelbylynn
        Shelbylynn
        @DimLeb Hopefully there are activities and things you can bond over still. I like home movie, and coffee dates. But I don’t have h or anything so I can do moderate loud like a cafe.
        Feb 4, 2022
      4. DimLeb
        DimLeb
        @Shelbylynn True! No hyperacusis as well, except for some TTTS spasms. Unfortunately, there's still covid and that makes going out stacked in people kinda concerning. So, home stuff it is. How's your T?
        Feb 4, 2022
    20. Shelbylynn
      Shelbylynn
      I was roller skating indoors and dropped a wall remote for the fan yeah It crashed vertically and made noise for a plastic thingmay try NAC
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      3. Lurius
        Lurius
        Roller skating indoors? :P What in the world!? :P
        Jan 22, 2022
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      4. Shelbylynn
        Shelbylynn
        Thanks @Wrfortiscue genuinely appreciate. I’m too panicky and gotta learn to calm myself but hearing someone else remind me helps tremendously
        Feb 4, 2022
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      5. Shelbylynn
        Shelbylynn
        @Lurius haha!well see, the thing is, I’m not good yet so I’m afraid to strap wheels to my feet in public still. I gotta practice first. I need 2 find a quiet outside place to practice, an empty tennis court maybe
        Feb 4, 2022
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    21. Shelbylynn
      Shelbylynn
      What do y’all do when the cars bass next to you is bumping super loud at a stop light? I can’t really cover my ears cause it’s bass freq
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      3. Exit
        Exit
        Drive with muffs within reach.
        You may be stuck in a biker gang war:)
        Jan 23, 2022
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      4. Shelbylynn
        Shelbylynn
        @Exit You know what as ludicrous as it sounds that would be just my luck. ;p
        Jan 23, 2022
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      5. Barry098
        Barry098
        @Shelbylynn I can actually hear better with the Bose headphones because they cut out all of the muddy bass frequencies.
        Jan 23, 2022
    22. Shelbylynn
      Shelbylynn
      So I may very well be working in an office very soon, which is nerve wracking. Anyone have any words of advice? Any loud equipment? Tips? :)
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      3. Shelbylynn
        Shelbylynn
        @Damocles I actually don't have it *FOR SURE* yet. BUT FINGERS CROSSED they'll have me. I'm going to hound them until they accept :) But thank you for the congrats and the positivity.
        Jan 25, 2022
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      4. Shelbylynn
        Shelbylynn
        @twa Thank you for the advice! I haven't secured it yet, but I'm hoping they'll have me! We shall see what happens. Thank you again. <3
        Jan 25, 2022
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      5. Shelbylynn
        Shelbylynn
        @Barry098 Thank you! I didn't secure it yet, but hoping they'll accept me. I was referred to the office by an acquaintance, so fingers crossed.
        Jan 25, 2022
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    23. Shelbylynn
      Shelbylynn
      I’ve been taking magnesium for 3 days straight. I borrowed some NAC from my brother but I’m a little apprehensive to try it lol
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      3. Guywithapug
        Guywithapug
        Good luck
        Jan 17, 2022
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      4. Watasha
        Watasha
        I took NAC pretty regularly for about a year, didn't notice a difference either way.
        Jan 17, 2022
      5. NYCGuy
        NYCGuy
        Works great for me, helps with my TMJ issues and sleeping.
        Jan 18, 2022
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    24. Shelbylynn
      Shelbylynn
      The worst sound ever is a bus breaks which sound like dying screeching demons. It's always the moment I am not wearing any hearingprotection
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      3. Charburchar
        Charburchar
        I once had a spike after a bus slammed the breaks directly next to me as I was walking past. I always wear earplugs now even to the shops because of these awful things. They're so loud!!!
        Jan 15, 2022
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      4. Shelbylynn
        Shelbylynn
        @Charburchar I'm so stubborn! I don't want to wear it in passing moments because I knew I was just going inside a building in a few seconds. But I keep thinking "Oh well I'll be in a quiet place soon I'll walk fast" And nope even then. I've even waited til loud things pass outside before i walk out LOL.
        Jan 16, 2022
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      5. KristianTsokanov
        KristianTsokanov
        What's even more terrifying, car alarms! Got out of the grocery store and didn't want to look like a weirdo by walking back in. That was a bad evening lol
        Jan 20, 2022
    25. Shelbylynn
      Shelbylynn
      T srsly has me considering hanging outside near the music venue I used to frequent in hopes I can hear the music outside. band I like play
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    26. Shelbylynn
      Shelbylynn
      Stupid half asleep me flopping on the bed and my ear twice .-.
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      2. Shelbylynn
        Shelbylynn
        Me half asleep is a whole diff person lol.
        Jan 13, 2022
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      3. Damocles
        Damocles
        That said, it can't have done any permanent damage, so relax... but not so much that you flop again! φ(ºДº)φ

        Jeez this is complicated...
        Jan 13, 2022
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      4. Shelbylynn
        Shelbylynn
        @Damocles it ended up not having any effect on me.... BUT YEAH. WHY DO I DO THAT?! OK next time I'm just getting up. Someone just sedate me ._. peace
        Jan 14, 2022
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    27. Shelbylynn
      Shelbylynn
      1.How long does it take you guys to get used to a new tone/sound? 2.Do you more often get just an increase in volume or a new sound? or both
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      3. Shelbylynn
        Shelbylynn
        @Steph1710 yeah sort of a spark sound occasionally. I have the same base sound but I get little extra stuff occasionally, but then I think it goes away. It’s not constant, the accessories that is (the remixes lol), sometimes it feels louder and quieter too
        Jan 13, 2022
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      4. Shelbylynn
        Shelbylynn
        @Wrfortiscue do you mean your sounds are always changing? Is there no constant one ?
        Jan 13, 2022
      5. Matt G
        Matt G
        For 20 years I had stable, non-irratic T. Last June developed a new tone for the first time that sounded like a jet turbine, as well as reactivity. That slowly dissipated to a non-issue by late October early November. The new tone is there but can only be heard when falling asleep.

        Unfortunately, developed yet another new tone however this one is incredibly intrusive :(
        Jan 17, 2022
    28. Shelbylynn
      Shelbylynn
      noticing a new tone w/ my white noise tone left ear. Today I either notice more or it's louder. Sound unlocked: electrical spark.tst ts tsst
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      3. Shelbylynn
        Shelbylynn
        @Matchbox I pretty much love my white noise sounds (base tinnitus), I feel like they’re really easy to filter out of my mind. I just don’t want them any louder lol. I hate eeeee sounds and metallic warped sounds
        Jan 11, 2022
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      4. Shelbylynn
        Shelbylynn
        Jan 11, 2022
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      5. Shelbylynn
        Shelbylynn
        @Exit i don’t think particularly I was named after her. I’ll have to ask my mother lol. But she has a lovely voice :-)
        Jan 11, 2022
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    29. Shelbylynn
      Shelbylynn
      Took some sudafed for congestion. Hope it doesn't spike me. Usually makes things seem louder for a bit but doesn't last more than a day.
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      2. Damocles
        Damocles
        Cardiovascular exercise is one of those things where there's really nothing it can't improve; except for viral illnesses (which you should really be resting during) and, I guess, heart attacks... (both during and after).
        Jan 9, 2022
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      3. Damocles
        Damocles
        But yeah, in 2015 I went through a period of never-ending ear infections, and subsequently dropped all my regular cardio-exercise. That was when I noticed I could hardly breathe through my nose anymore.

        So blood-flow clearly plays a massive role here.
        Jan 9, 2022
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      4. Shelbylynn
        Shelbylynn
        @Damocles thats interesting, I’m taking up roller skating and I’ve been exercising more so I’ll let you know if it helps, my congestion is mainly allergy so idk how much it’ll help. But I was planning on exercising again anyways. Thanks again
        Jan 11, 2022
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    30. Shelbylynn
      Shelbylynn
      I've been doing okay and i have a opportunity for a quiet office job!! YAY. NERVOUS but I hope I can secure it.
      1. NYCGuy
        NYCGuy
        Those are great news, best of luck!
        Jan 7, 2022
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        Shelbylynn
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  • About

    Gender:
    Female
    Birthday:
    May 6, 1995 (Age: 28)
    Location:
    Fresno, California
    Occupation:
    Vintage clothing dealer
    Tinnitus Since:
    1/2019
    Cause of Tinnitus:
    Concert/lifelong music abuse
    :cyclops:Why hello there, and welcome....
    To the house of cicadas that never shut up and to the Television set to static which resides in my head and never turns off.
    I'm writing this "about me" in a moment of sustained anxiety and over whether I'll spike so that should already tell you a lot about the struggles of tinnitus and me. Sometimes it's hard to tell who is more important in this equation the t or me?
    I hope it is me.
    26 years old and as of June 8 at 1am (the time I am writing this to you dear reader) my tinnitus is moderate. Subject to change. Indefinitely.
    I hope that in some ways we can foster a sense of community here and in the least have a support group for a symptom that many don't understand just how debilitating and isolating and it can be.
    I wasn't always this scared or this doom and gloom, in fact here is a real life pic of me before getting tinnitus ->:rockingbanana:. Yep. That idiotic going to concerts, clubs, you name it. If it was loud- I was there. Never wearing or knowing how important war protection is. Young and reckless and thinking tinnitus was for older people.
    If you ever need me shoot me a message I will try to respond in a timely manner. I may forget that I opened it though and will respond months later when it's no longer any use to you. But I will try! :p