Comments on Profile Post by Shelbylynn

  1. tpj
    tpj
    Depends on how bad your t is and the risks you're willing to take.
    Aug 9, 2022
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  2. Leila
    Leila
    In the very beginning I've gone to see a couple of bands but always with earplugs and over-ear protection. It was okay as far as my tinnitus has been concerned, but the ear protection changed the quality of the music to a point I didn't enjoy it at all, and that was it. Now, with the addition of hyperacusis, listening to live music is absolutely impossible for me :(
    Aug 9, 2022
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  3. Lurius
    Lurius
    I made a compromise and I liste to music all day on a low volume. Live music is something else....that stuff is yanked up to 11, creating new tinnitus victims every time. Knowing the stuff I know now, I don't even think it's that enjoyable anymore. I just dont understand why it has to be so damn loud.
    Aug 9, 2022
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  4. kingsfan
    kingsfan
    I would start small. Maybe enjoy a busker from afar and see how that goes.
    Aug 9, 2022
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  5. UKBloke
    UKBloke
    Primarily something without drums I suppose.
    PS - your winkey photo does it for me. Very foxy lol.
    Aug 9, 2022
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  6. Shelbylynn
    Shelbylynn
    @kingsfan smart idea. It’s crazy I even wrote that seeing as I’m one of the more anxious folks on here. I may go to a local farmers market and they usually have small local live music maybe that’s a good test lol even though I’ll likely try to avoid it!
    Aug 10, 2022
  7. kingsfan
    kingsfan
    @Shelbylynn as long as it's not in an enclosed area where you can start at a far distance away.

    Do you play an instrument? That should give you an idea of what you can handle. I, for instance, spike from my acoustic guitar and get fatigued from my unplugged electric, so I know I probably can't handle anything live.
    Aug 10, 2022
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  8. Shelbylynn
    Shelbylynn
    @kingsfan Yeah I play a classical guitar acoustically and i strum and I don't notice any ill effect from it. My t is more stable than I think I feared from the start. I just get weary cause i got t from a concert but we're talking tool in a enclosed space. This is like some small local band playing in an open beer garden outside. I'll see if I can just avoid the beer garden anyways.
    Aug 11, 2022
  9. Shelbylynn
    Shelbylynn
    @kingsfan Technically i just wanna go because a friend invited me. It's like an open outdoor farmers market on some small part of our downtown area where it's an open street of vendors food trucks etc. I just want food anyways LOL. I'll wear plugs too and I always carry peltors in case. It's like I miss music but I'm also phobic of it now
    Aug 11, 2022
  10. kingsfan
    kingsfan
    @Shelbylynn If you wait until after the band starts. You can gauge how you feel as you are walking towards the beer garden.
    Aug 11, 2022
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  11. kingsfan
    kingsfan
    @Shelbylynn Ugh, I don't want to give you the impression that I'm encouraging you to go into a super loud environment. I'm just trying to help you stay safe as possible while you navigate your limits/boundaries. I would stay far far back and using a sound meter, stay below 75-70dba. Even that volume messes up some of us, but I don't know your situation.
    Aug 11, 2022
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  12. Shelbylynn
    Shelbylynn
    @kingsfan oh no I completely understand! It’s a lot safer than like an actual music event. It’s just around. My tinnitus has been fairly stable and been through really loud accidental crap so 70s doesn’t bother me especially if I’m wearing plugs. For some reason my tinnitus isn’t as sensitive as others? But I also don’t wanna risk it ya know
    Aug 11, 2022
  13. Shelbylynn
    Shelbylynn
    Well I went it was about 71 on my db reader maybe a little louder says it was my phone. I wore my lighter plugs. Haven't noticed a spike so I would say it's a success! I stayed farther from music though. So up close music was prob 80-90 or more who knows
    Aug 17, 2022
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  14. in_LA
    in_LA
    I have palinacousis and I'm supposed to see Canons in September over here in LA, and my gf is unwilling to accept that I may not be able to go. My issue has turned my life upside down, music is my life, and having to hear it at below average volume saddens me. Colorless is completely accurate.
    Aug 24, 2022
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  15. Shelbylynn
    Shelbylynn
    @in_LA Hey, music is a huge passion of mine so I completely understand. It's a devastating blow. Your feelings are completely warranted.
    Sep 4, 2022
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  16. Shelbylynn
    Shelbylynn
    @in_LA I feel like I'm still in a tailspin and confused about how to proceed from here and I got two 2 years ago. IDk, if it feels like an identity shock. I hope we can both find ways to let music back in our lives safely.
    Sep 4, 2022
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