I'm 29, and stuck in my 2nd master studies. As my T fluctuates with facial pain I'm working on therapy, but it might take another couple of years. So no graduation yet. T makes me also tired and careless. I'm not depressed, I can laugh but it's quite hard. Most friends I know already have a job, relationship and a kid coming. No such thing as health problems. If I go onto datingsites and say that I'm still with my parents (don't work sidejobs because of T) most women are gone in seconds. I was trying to look for a girlfriend to have some distraction and loving someone might distract me from pain and T. What do you tell your surroundings? Do you tell dates that you are at home and don't work because of T (I've read that some of you are). Do you guys tell friends that you have T or H?