Would You (as a Guy) Date a Transgender Girl That Changed Into a (Mostly) Guy?

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    1. John_415

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      So I had this random thought while drinking wine and watching the news.
      I saw a girl that turned into a guy (mostly), and she really looked like a guy but was kinda attractive I thought, and totally anatomically a girl. If I would meet such a person and have the opportunity to date that person and it's nice to interact with that person I think I would:p.

      A guy turning into a girl I would never date by the way.

      So random question but would anyone else as a guy consider to go for such a person if the chance were to arise?
       
    2. glynis
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      Love comes in many ways and that should not be judged by others as if they carn't handle it thats their problem and not the two people whom have connected and found a soul mate,lover,partner to share their life with.
      love glynis
       
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      @John_415 - Your post reminds me of this actor: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Asia_Kate_Dillon

      Dillon stars in a tv show called Billions and Orange is the New Black here in the USA. Dillion was my 1st introduction into non-binary identity and gender neutral pronouns.

      To answer your question - At this point in my life I would be open to it if I were single. I mean why not? 20 years ago there would have been no way, sadly. Where I grew up in the USA, with limited exposure to the world at that time, I know I would have been too confused and too close-minded to consider dating a person like this. But, in the past 20 years my views, thoughts, and beliefs have shifted drastically due to living-in, and visiting foreign countries and experiencing many different cultures along the way. I think of this quote by Mark Twain which absolutely applies to me: "Travel is fatal to prejudice, bigotry, and narrow-mindedness"

      Now if we could get the rest of the USA to get out and see the world... Guess that's another topic though...
       
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      Honestly? No. This whole thing with transgenderism, transfluiderism or whatever.. its a huge mental disorder problem. Being able to mutilate ones body in such a manner ought to be banned. There are only 2 genders; male and female. A VERY tiny part of the population may have a female brain in a male body, or the other way around, but you will ALWAYS be female, and ALWAYS male. I dont care if you cut your dick off or your boobs off. And if that's something you want to do, you really should see a shrink.
       
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    5. glynis
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      @Ecip,
      Life is not that easy and would be unfair to let a person suffer in the wrong body /sex.
      I have a lesbian niece and hubby a Gay cousin and both happy with the same sex and if they needed to transgender then good for them as long as they find happiness in this life .
      It's the person they are inside that matters ....
      my view...but respect yours.
      love glynis
       
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      Ok, interesting. Kate Dillon I would not count as attractive just going from her looks btw.
       
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      Yeah I agree with the not cutting stuff off part, that gets a bit to much for me. But if she is female and unaltered but acts somewhat guy'ish and most importantly goes for guys then I think that has something.

      Also lesbian girls are very attractive sometimes but then again if they're lesbian I'm out of luck, maybe that's just my inner-lesbian talking:p Ok that was a joke.
       
    8. Ecip

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      Important distinction here... we're talking about the mental illness of transgenderism, not homosexuality.
       
    9. Ecip

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      It doesnt matter what this Kate Dillon thinks she is, or identifies as. She is clearly a woman. I could identify as a lawn mower, but clearly, I am not. It's a mental illness and not to be encouraged. People need help, but they arent getting it from north american society.
       
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    10. glynis
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      @Ecip ,
      Sorry im going have to agree to disagree on this....buy hey that not a bad thing...
      love glynis
       
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      Well females (male) make the best girls, so I assume that works in reverse and males (female) make the best guys. So yeah I would.
       
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      Took my mind off T, thats for sure. hah.
       
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      People should just be whatever they want, the op however looks like he is being more fetishistic about it. I have dated someone whom I had no idea had a vagina (looked like a traditional guy on the outside), I was...uhm, shocked to say the least and was quite repulsed at first but I realized that I loved the person for who they are and what they had "down there" was meaningless anyway. Of course I was 18 and never been intimate in that way so it meant less to me at the time. If the situation happened again I would say no, as there is no future there for me, but I respect people's wishes to be what they are...genders are man made...people can be born whatever sex and act however they want...it is us to choose to force them into a label.
       
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      your a bigot, i tried to quote your post but it triggers the annoying keyword filter so i had to remove

      LGBT people most likely do have a brain that's wired differently that doesn't make it a bad thing, it just makes you a bigot for judging and wanting to control some one elses life because either it contradicts your fairytale about a semetic bronze age ultra violent war deity as his hippie magic man son that got nailed to a tree or your such a prick you need to find a minority to discriminate against to make you feel better.
       
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    20. Ecip

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      lol what?
       
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    22. Ecip

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      I'm not quite sure that you understand the term "bigot", or even basic spelling and grammar, and neither do I understand what "fairy tale" I apparently believe in. So therefore I think that you are quite a confused little individual that really has no idea what I, or even you yourself, is talking about.
       
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      Don't change the argument or use fancy word play and I won't either, I'm calling you our for discriminating trans people.
       
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      Wait, what?
      Do you mean she looks like a guy but with a vagina?

      To answer your question, there's no way that could attract me.
       
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      You mean it's a mental issue?
      So you agree with him.
       
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    27. Ecip

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      Ohhhh I see, I'm discriminating against the mentally ill. Gotcha. Well, I'd have to disagree with that.
       
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      Whoever one blends with is there togetherness.☺️
       
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      I have no idea what you’re on about. But I would seriously consider cutting my dick off and growing tits in exchange for getting rid of this tinnitus shit.
       
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