@Telis , I feel for you.  I wish there was something we could do to make it better.  What you describe definitely sounds well beyond what is typical tinnitus.  I can only imagine how bad that must be.
I wonder if a cochlear implant could be an option for you?  I don't remember offhand how bad your hearing loss is, but I'm thinking it doesn't meet typical CI criteria.  But I do know it is sometimes implanted for people with severe tinnitus.  Maybe you could get some kind of exception?
I'm actually interested in learning if a CI could benefit me.  Not for T, but for hearing loss in my deaf ear.  I have a consultation this Friday to go through some tests to see if there could be any benefit.
-Mike