I was 4 years old and I said to my mum, "you know how we have that ringing in our ears, why is it there?" My mum was quite shocked and told me that most people don't have a ringing sound in their ears.
Wow, I wish I saw this post earlier (I have not been able to be on here much recently). I have to congratulate you, it too me until I was about 8 or 10 to ask that question.
So I've had a high pitched ringing in both ears my whole life
Does anyone have any ideas as to why it suddenly got worse in one ear? And will it get quieter?
I wish I could answer that question. I have had a few increases in volume during my life. I have have many "spikes", that have been temporary, but a few increases that were not.
Everybody's tinnitus is different. And, to be honest, little is know about the causes, especially for those of us who have never known silence.
What I do know is that staying positive will help. I can't promise that it will quiet down, I truly wish I could as I (like almost everyone here) understands how frustrating and difficult tinnitus can be. But, keep a positive attitude.
Focus on habituation (a word I had never heard until I came to this forum, which just means that you get accustomed to the tinnitus to where it does not bother you and you do not really notice it).
@billie48 wrote his success story demonstrating how positivity helped him habituate.
https://www.tinnitustalk.com/thread...w-i-recovered-from-tinnitus-hyperacusis.3148/
@Michael Leigh wrote the following, excellent post on the importance of positivity:
https://www.tinnitustalk.com/threads/is-positivity-important.23150/
and the following on negativity and tinnitus
https://www.tinnitustalk.com/threads/tinnitus-and-the-negative-mindset.23705/
There are a number of highly knowledgable people on this forum, Michael and Billie are amongst them. I would highly recommend seeking out posts started by these two as you will find a lot of valuable information that will help you better understand tinnitus and develop strategies to live with it. As a life long sufferer, it probably is not going to go away.
Here is another article from Michael that I have found very helpful:
https://www.tinnitustalk.com/threads/tinnitus-a-personal-view.18668/
And, to support
@dayma 's point about headphones, an post that Michael Leigh wrote ton headphone use and tinnitus:
https://www.tinnitustalk.com/threads/headphones-and-tinnitus.12062/
Tinnitus can get very frustrating at times. I, like you, was fine with it as it was all I have ever known. But then I had the first major increase. Recently I have had a few more. Now, everyone's tinnitus experience is different, and I can only speak from by experience. It will get easier. It may not seem like, and there will be times where you will think that you cannot take it anymore. You can, and you will be able to. Adversity shows us that we are much stronger and resilient than we think we are.
I hope that you are able to find the answers and support you need here. This is an amazing community, and you are now part of it. We understand what you are experiencing. You will find that, often, people who do not suffer from tinnitus cannot understand how debilitating it can be. For that reason I am glad you found this forum. Our members do, and we will be here to support you when you need it.