Chapter 1: Don't Panic! — Suggest Content
1.1: Introduction
That isn't easy, we know. You may be wondering; what is it, what is happening to me, will it get worse, am I going mad, will it ever stop, am I going to go deaf??? HELP!
It can be alarming, but tinnitus is not usually a sign of a serious or on-going medical condition. And it can often be temporary; it could very well go away in a few days or weeks or fade to the point that you rarely notice it. In fact this is what happens for the overwhelming majority of people who get it.
Tinnitus is a symptom, which means that if you can get treatment for the underlying cause then you have an excellent chance of it going. It's important that you get to your Doctor and you make sure you get a referral to a specialist that can help you out. Check out Chapter 3 to find out more.
The first thing you need to do is to stop listening to it. Don't give it attention, don't wonder if it's still there when other noise masks it, try not to think about it and don't panic about it. There are millions of us out here who have felt like you do now but we have got through it, and so can you.
Tinnitus is a perception of an external sound that doesn't exist. It can be a high or low pitched ringing or hum, or a more complicated sound. You're not losing it, believe it or not you share this with around 10% of everybody in the world.
A key to getting over tinnitus is to understand that it can't hurt you. If you are finding the sound distracting or irritating right now you can either play the above masking track or open up
our player while you read this (it will open in a separate tab on your browser). Find a sound that you like, get the volume to a level where it just about covers your tinnitus but you can still hear it a little and try to forget it exists whilst you read through this guide.
Now relax.
No matter how you feel right now it's important to know that things are likely get a lot better. Pretty much all of us that contribute to and use this site have been in exactly the same place as you. Although it might not seem like it, there is a high likelihood that your experience of tinnitus will improve. It may not happen as fast as you want it to, but if you understand what helps you and what makes you worse, you can beat this and go back to living a normal life.
1.2 How On Earth Am I Supposed to Not Panic?
One of our members posted that the two most important things are:
1. You MUST relax your body and mind
2. You MUST be able to sleep
Stress is the natural reaction to tinnitus,
It is crucial to relax so that your brain doesn't 'learn' to fear the tinnitus sound. For many people it causes extreme stress both mentally and physically in the beginning. Your brain interprets tinnitus as a threat and your body goes into a primitive fight-or-flight state. The physical symptoms of this are for example a high heart rate, increased cortisol (stress hormone) levels in the blood, high blood pressure and many other negative effects.
If you are badly sleep deprived, everything will more or less fall into pieces.
Sleep deprivation causes havoc to our body and mind in various ways and it almost always makes the T worse -> more stress -> harder to sleep -> the vicious cycle continues.
Tinnitus can be hard going as the sound invades our lives and quiet times. You can forget what it is like to just sit in a space and listen to absolutely nothing and that thought can set off a chain reaction.
Along with the sound we can experience panic, anxiety and depression and lack of sleep. It can be hard enough trying get through the day as it is, being a parent or holding down a job or dealing with any amount of things that feel so far from your control.
There is a lot of help and support for you so stay positive. At Tinnitus Talk there are a whole community of people going through the exact same thing and they are here around the clock to support you. Feel free to vent and get it all out, that's an important step in the healing process.
1.3 What About All The Bad Stories I See?
As you read through the forum, you will notice that there are a lot of different stories of how we got here and how we react to the ringing. Your story will be different, your cause, your reaction, your coping will all be unique, because you are unique. Your ringing might go away on its own or continue. Don't let our stories scare you!
It's important to understand that the people who have tinnitus where it is a real problem for their daily lives account for around 1-2% of those who have it.
The human brain has this habit of attaching to the negative, we also have a habit of sharing and venting the negative more than we do the positives. Most of the posts you read on Tinnitus Talk and elsewhere on forums are from people who are in need of support. What you don't notice is that these people have all left and got back to living their lives. A small percentage write their success stories to try and help others but most just improve and drift away.
We are all different! Some may be cured. Some may learn to ignore it. Some of us just live with it. But do know that we care. If we can handle it then so can you. There is hope!