We Are Left to Pick Up the Pieces...

Discussion in 'Support' started by Jazzer, Dec 20, 2018.

    1. Jazzer

      Jazzer Member Benefactor Hall of Fame

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      We are left to pick up the pieces.

      In reading the experiences of many members I have come to the conclusion that in many cases, perhaps most cases, there has been one person, one culprit, one incident that caused our devastating acoustic trauma, and ultimately our brain damage.

      Whether it be a vile driver whose texting was far more important than driving with due care and attention for others,
      a medical / dental practitioner who’s expertise was criminally negligent,
      a (would be) musician who, in a fit of Asperger anger, allowed his instrument to scream in my ear,
      or some other..etc...
      frequently we are aware of the culprit.

      But there is usually no redress.
      And anyway, there is no way back to silence.
      So we have to live with our suffering.

      Tinnitus Talk is I believe a vital resource.
      It is not perfect.
      Tinnitus lightweights attempt with a messianic zeal to dispense their words of superior benevolent wisdom, to genuine tinnitus sufferers.
      ‘Nauseating !’
      Worse still, totally ignorant arrogant ‘trolls’ seek to belittle and deride those of us who suffer most.

      However, people in distress need to talk.
      We need to tell someone.
      We need somebody to understand what we are going through.

      We need, at the very least, recognition.
      This is why children run to their mums - if they have a nice caring one.
      It is why people in emotional distress turn to psychotherapists.
      (My therapist - on hearing my story of childhood isolation - said
      “Oh David - this should never have happened to you.”
      We all deserve recognition.
      Recognition cannot cure us, but is perhaps the nearest we can come to a sense of justice.

      On Tinnitus Talk we can recognise each other and support each other.
      We can also ignore the trolls, or at least recognise them for what they are - arse’oles.
      Oh dear - kindly excuse my French.

      I wish everybody peace and quiet.
      I know it won’t work like that - but I can wish everybody whatever I like!

      Tinnitus - go and get “STUFFED!!!”
       
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    2. Vicki14
      Panicky

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      Well said @Jazzer! I hope we all find silence again one day! x
       
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    3. JohnAdams
      Festive

      JohnAdams Member Benefactor Hall of Fame

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      dude, they already know how to heal noise induced hearing loss which makes tinnitus. we're just playing a waiting game for the economics of this bs to catch up. just hang on, big questions will soon be answered. there are things happening.
       
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    4. coffee_girl
      Innocent

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      Every person with tinnitus should be heard.
       
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    5. Alex Matyjasek
      Not amused

      Alex Matyjasek Member

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      Stress? Who knows...
      Well said. It's so hard to express to your loved ones and friends what it's like to have this perfect storm. Never imagined something like this could be possibe. What a way to f*ck up life. Despite the low percentage of sufferes something has to be done. This is insane! Hopefully realiable treatments are on the way...
       
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      Jazzer

      Jazzer Member Benefactor Hall of Fame

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      Urgent Message!!
      Would all partners of severe tinnitus sufferers please please help to love them better.
      They need it so much.
      I’m relying on you,
      Dave x
      Jazzer
       
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    7. dpdx
      Disappointed

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      Onset:09/23/2017 Worsened: 1/17/2018
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      Acoustic Trauma, worsened by caloric test/VEMP test 90db nhL
      I just cant accept the fact that I pissed my life away at age 27. I will be 29 next year and life is pretty much over for me.
       
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    8. Bam

      Bam Member Benefactor Hall of Fame

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      You didn’t do this to yourself mate. None of us asked to be cursed with this evil.
       
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    9. dpdx
      Disappointed

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      I am crying right now its so bad. T is a 9/10. Hyperacusis so bad feels like somewone is putting molten lava into my ears. Damn the ENT who damaged my hearing with the Caloric + CVEMP. So many inner hair cells have been damaged now.
       
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    10. jasonbourne

      jasonbourne Member

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      I mean I did. I listened to loud music concerts and loud gaming. I just didn't know the gravity of what I was doing. If someone explained tinnitus to me at a young age you bet your ass I wouldn't be suffering today.
       
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    11. JohnAdams
      Festive

      JohnAdams Member Benefactor Hall of Fame

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      just start bitching constantly about fx322 and stem cell therapies. they've cured hearing loss, they are just dragging their asses while we waste away.
       
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    12. Bam

      Bam Member Benefactor Hall of Fame

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      Mate you would never have listened. For example look at the dire straits we’re in and yet do you think any of your friends or family members will start wearing earplugs to concerts or loud bars/nightclubs?!? Will they fuck.

      This shit only truly hits home when it’s too late...... and you’re neck deep in the nastiest most suffocating shit known to man.
       
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    13. Bam

      Bam Member Benefactor Hall of Fame

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      No one but us seems to want to find out if curing hearing loss cures the noise. And I 100% agree with you John that our so called charities should be lobbying these companies daily to release data as a matter of urgency so we can find out if there’s any bloody hope for us.
       
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    14. JohnAdams
      Festive

      JohnAdams Member Benefactor Hall of Fame

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      Where are the celebrities on any of this? Where are all the vets on this site? I haven't met one person here that got tinnitus over in Iraq from a bomb or a firefight. Why hasn't anyone here visited Minbo Shim? especially the ones that killed themselves? How come you never hear Tinnitus Hub people talk about stem cells or Fx322?

      There's plenty of attention on Dr. Joseph Rauschecker, a man with no real message, that can't raise money. OOOOHHHH But he did a Ted Talk, and the Neuromod, there hasn't even been any scientific data released at all.
      There's more data behind what Dr. Minbo Shim is doing than Neuromod. They have videos of people claiming it helped them, so does Minbo Shim, but people call him a scammer and the same people praise Neuromod, which isn't even a cure.

      Is the world just a bunch of sad friggen idiots? What in the world is going on here? Are these people too stupid to understand that 99% of us have damaged cochleas that CAN BE repaired right now?!?!?!?!?

      I'm not knocking people that are sad but why is anyone here on this site posting about wanting to die? Shouldn't we just be wanting to have our ears regenerated??? This is not a fantasy. And forget the naysayers, restoring hearing will alleviate tinnitus.
       
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    15. Bam

      Bam Member Benefactor Hall of Fame

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      People are beaten up and broken down John. They’ve given up, lost hope, had their confidence stripped to the bone.

      We are conditioned in to being led back to health by doctors and specialists and with this condition we have just been left stumbling around in the dark desperately fumbling for a light switch on a wall that’s 1000 feet high and four fucking miles wide whilst being attacked by screaming noise.

      Even some of the celebrities with this who appear fine are probably suffering horribly and can’t even wrap their head around it, let alone talk about it.

      It sounds pathetic but we’re all just praying someone else will save us because we’re too fucking broken to save ourselves.
       
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    16. JohnAdams
      Festive

      JohnAdams Member Benefactor Hall of Fame

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      look at this paper

      https://www.eurekalert.org/pub_releases/2007-06/ajop-cyh062207.php

      11 fuckin years ago..... why haven't they even tried this in humans yet????? what is the damn excuse? what is the reason? the only thing I can think is a conspiracy of monumental proportions to keep us sick and suffering, like they don't even care about money, like they just want us to suffer and die.
       
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    17. jasonbourne

      jasonbourne Member

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      noise
      No they wouldnt, but I would. I know myself well enough. It only took one article of rabies to make me super aware of bats, and I live in the UK. I Only had unprotected sex once and I was convinced I had aids. You get the picture. Its ironic I guess.
       
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    18. Autumnly
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      Come on, they said they're releasing the data from their recent study next year. You can also read their other studies online, they're linked on their homepage and open to the public, no paywall.
       
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    19. JohnAdams
      Festive

      JohnAdams Member Benefactor Hall of Fame

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      look at this video:
      Stanford's Initiative to Cure Hearing Loss


      this lab is where notch inhibitors and the technology behind fx322 came from. the dude even says around @28:00 that stem cells implanted into the ear turn into hair cells and make the nerve regrow. Before they came up with the notch inhibitor chemicals they published a paper saying that bone marrow stem cells can regenerate hair cells.

      https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/17113786

      WTF happened with that? No money in stem cell therapies?? What is going on here? What is going on here? What is going on here? Did they ever even attempt this in humans???????? Looks like no! Why??

      If I ran this lab the day I realized that you could do this in a rodent I would be trying it in a human. It has been years and years. WTFF?
       
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    20. JohnAdams
      Festive

      JohnAdams Member Benefactor Hall of Fame

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      I'm just saying why are people so damn excited by this and not the other things that have more data that may actually cure us?
       
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    21. Bam

      Bam Member Benefactor Hall of Fame

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      I guess the second they acknowledge it destroys lives and kills people they have to start providing costly treatments and investing heavily in research......Easier and cheaper to ignore and belittle the condition and when a suicide story does leak just go straight to the default mental health character assassination.
       
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    22. Bam

      Bam Member Benefactor Hall of Fame

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      I’m betting unprotected sex doesn’t seem quite so scary anymore given our current situation.
       
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    23. JohnAdams
      Festive

      JohnAdams Member Benefactor Hall of Fame

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      look at this. Insulin-like growth factor-1 regrows cochlear hair cells, and make supporting cells proliferate.

      "Insulin-like growth factor 1: A novel treatment for the protection or regeneration of cochlear hair cells."

      "In this review, IGF1 has been described as a novel and potent treatment for SNHL"

      https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/25937136


      This IGF-1 is in the Plate-Rich-Plasma and there are clinics all over the country that can make this shit. Load this shit up in a syringe now and inject it into someone's damn ear now!

      Two syringes and a centrifuge may be the only thing standing between us and recovery.



       
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    24. JohnAdams
      Festive

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    25. JohnAdams
      Festive

      JohnAdams Member Benefactor Hall of Fame

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      @Jazzer, that stanford dude says in that video that musicians like you and I have more developed audio cortexes and that's why it bothers us so much.
       
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    26. JohnAdams
      Festive

      JohnAdams Member Benefactor Hall of Fame

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      @Jazzer
      I got the paid full version of this paper just now from my wife's library subscription access:

      "Insulin-like growth factor 1: A novel treatment for the protection or regeneration of cochlear hair cells."

      I can't just copy and paste the paper because it's copyrighted. But it clearly says that IGF-1 in a gel injected onto the round window of the mammalian cochlea and the average increase in hearing was greater than 20 dB across all 5 frequencies measured. AND IT WAS SAFE.

      It's probable that additional injections would increase the effect.

      GTFO here why isn't this being done right now, in America? We need to wake up like a sleeping giant and get this shit going NOW.
       
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    27. Vicki14
      Panicky

      Vicki14 Member Benefactor

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      I absolutely agree! There is Zero awareness about noise damage!!! There’s sun damage, sexual health, teeth brushing... you name it but nothing about ears!!! I wish I knew too... :(
       
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    28. Vicki14
      Panicky

      Vicki14 Member Benefactor

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      @Bam - in comparison.... a walk in the park.
       
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    29. Bam

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      Hopefully slightly more exciting. :D
       
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    30. Zeneth
      Wishful

      Zeneth Member Benefactor

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      Why is everyone ignoring John? He has really good points.
       
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