Hi Wendy
In the words of William Shatner "You will get better". Tell us more about yourself, what happened?
One thing I know is that the anxiety you're feeling right now is part of a vicious cycle that is making it sound worse. It's hard to believe, since the noise is so *real*, but one of the best things you can do right now is give yourself hope that you *will* be OK. Just tell yourself "I'll be OK", get someone you love to assure you "You're going to be OK".
There are many people out there who have their noise still but just don't *care* about it any more. As Mr Turtle says, you will become habituated. It's not "coming to terms" with it either. You forget it's there; you don't care.
My own strategy was to convince myself that I could forget about it for small stretches of time - if I can forget for a minute, 5 minutes, 30 minutes then I know I can spend the day not thinking about it. This involved playing guitar, working (I write computer programs, which is mentally absorbing). Watching TV and reading didn't quite work for me. Meeting friends socially did; there's enough background noise to enable full distraction as you get involved in conversation. Those first few evenings where I forgot (albeit briefly) were key.
Once you get those small moments of distraction, you build your confidence up in recovery, the anxiety decreases, and you have started killing the vicious cycle. Stomp that sucker flat!
I hope this helps
All best to you
DD