Thanks for that Kolisar.
This forum is a lifeline no question.
Because I find life very tough going at times, I have been looking on here every day, for help, consolation, advice, etc....the only true experts on Tinnitus are the sufferers.
At different times, doctors, audiologists, well meaning friends, have told me 'how it is' or 'what to do' and so on......but they simply do not know the reality of the Tinnitus experience.
They usually offer what amounts to a 'sugar coated pill.' No good to me.
"Reality is all there is!"
I have surmounted some desperate situations in my life, including schizoid/depression, a legacy from my poor mentally ill mother.
I came through by confronting the reality that, in my infancy, there was no love for me.
"Love is where you find it!"
I eventually found it, initially with an analytical psychotherapist, then with true friends, a glorious loving wife, to whom I quite literally owe my life, to my wonderful children, and now to grandchildren, who are an honour to know.
And, guess what, I find love on here, from you, and several other lovely contributors.
Now finally, you appeared to be appoligising for rambling on my friend.......reckon I beat you this morning! Hahahahaha........
Best wishes,
Jazzer x