How to Be with Someone Having Tinnitus?

ONE MISTAKE I TELL YOU!!! ONE MISTAKE and now I am never going to live it down.

 

We are all losers anyway, nobody would wanna touch us. Might as well all move into a building together and spend the days bickering at one another over whose T is more severe than others...have a massive blowout between the "real sufferers" and the "mild sufferers" and then at the end of the day realize it really doesn't matter we are all screwed anyway...and just go to our rooms and watch adult films until we pass out.

 

I have it set so anyone can, but some people can't get through for whatever reason, must be a technical issue. I'll try sending you a message right now.

 

Just a joke. Sense of humor? My noise is bad and sometimes I have a poor taste of humor. Sorry. I hope you are having a low or no tinnitus day.

 

I'm sick of people. I'd like to go and live among the rabbits. They're cute, they're quiet, they're vegetarians.

 

LMFAOOOOOO!!!

 

I know I was just messing with you, <3...hope you're doing well too!

 

I tease my neighbor farmer that he is gay. He said it is so damn natural ( I could have made that up) I wonder why he hangs up on me lately? He has tinnitus but not like mine. I have a solid hissing sound atm.

 

Speaking as an ex-rabbit owner, I am with you on this.

BTW, those who want some stress relief, sub to these calming youtube channels.

Pipkin
Bini
Lennon

 

I love rabbit meat, i wouldn't mind living with a bunch of rabbits too <3

 

Free food since they are constantly getting busy

 

How nice! To want to eat someone else's beloved pet. Have you eaten your dog yet? Maybe you should eat yourselves.

 

I'm in love with Bini the Bunny. Thanks for posting these.

 

Some of us are socially isolated and could benefit from more friendly free-flowing chit-chat but the way this thread is going demonstrates a hard truth of the internet:

When you join a group due to one thing in common it doesn't mean you'll have anything else in common with them. As long as the discussion focuses on that one thing then these differences won't crop up as often.

 

Rabbits stay "busy" much like prostitutes do. It is a bit ironic that you love rabbit meat. I couldn't believe how much money they make per year at the bunny ranch. We had some people at our door a few days ago wanting to hunt rabbits in our yard. We are finally seeing more rabbits as I think coyotes prey on them. I didn't want anyone hunting here. Got an iPad, meds, jewelry etc. stolen recently so don't trust many people, especially strangers in our yard.

 

I never said i wanted to eat your pet, i just said i love rabbit meat. Do you eat beef? Chicken? lamb? Tofu? Rabbit is very sustainable, clean, and easy to raise. Plus you know where your food is coming from.

As for my dog, I am half Asian after all...I'll eat anything. I've been to Africa, pretty sure i've eaten human while I was there.

 

No, no and no. And no to any other animal you could mention.

Yes. Soybeans are not animals.

 

yes i am aware that tofu is not an animal (I eat them every day) ...it was a joke. Oh dear.

 

Loud events are for one night stands not relationships.

You can literally talk with someone on the street, in the club you don't very much.

Oh god I miss one night stands

 

Even when I have a first date planned, sometimes I will cancel it days before because I'll begin to feel bad for the girl after running through the limitation of tinnitus in my mind and imagining what it will be like for her to deal with that because I still remember what its like to not have tinnitus and, I dunno, just feel guilty limiting anyones life. Even though I've totally explained my tinnitus to them and what I can't do and they are still totally up for a first date. I think thats one benefit of finding someone who also has tinnitus comes in to play because they will just get it which can avoid a lot of frustration on both sides as you endure this noisy world together. So instead of "hey, why are you crying in a fetal position in the bath tub, it's only thunder" it would be like "fuck! thunder! get our ear muffs!!" But there are obviously pros and cons.

 

I am now traumatized about people eating bunnies... @SugarMagnolia @glynis

 

I am more shocked that people eat deer and eel and sea cucumbers ick!

 

Can't you go almost anywhere with earplugs?

 

I cant go anywhere where there is music. so that includes a lot of restaurants. But its beyond the first date as well like when watching a movie at home and I have to have it on mute with captions turned on while they would need to wear headphones.

 

Due to H and TTTS?

 

Jeffrey Dahmer ate a variety of different animals. I think he liked squirrels the best.

It is quite common for people to eat pigeons and wild rabbit. Our indoor/outdoor cats kill baby rabbits at times.

 

I love threads like that. People reveal who they really are, and I get to populate my Ignore list.

 

You don't seem like the type to ignore people, i have zero on my ignore list...i just like to bug people as much as possible...it's fun =]

 

Not just night clubs I'm afraid. There have been articles explaining how the average sound level at sit-down restaurants is dangerously high. What happens, especially on Friday and Saturday nights when people pack in and start drinking is they all raise their voice to compensate for the collective din and it is a vicious cycle. The drunker they get the more boisterous they get as well. I've experienced this first-hand when I show up at a place before it gets busy and it gets louder and louder and louder, not just as a function of how many people but how they progressively raise their voice more and more.