New Member Seeking Information to Help Support Partner

Hi, @Rose&lillies ,

Welcome to Tinnitus Talk! I commend you for coming here to learn more about tinnitus, and for wanting to be a source of comfort and support to your partner.

Pulsatile tinnitus can be very challenging to live with, and to deal with on a day-to-day basis. I know, because I have pulsatile tinnitus myself. I've had it for 7 years, ever since taking a blood pressure drug for the first time. Your partner is probably experiencing what I felt when my PT first started; I was depressed, overwhelmed, and frightened. It took me a long time to get to where I could function normally again, and to accept the condition for what it is, and move forward with life.

What you can do to help him most is to listen, to be compassionate and understanding, and comforting as well. It would also be a good idea to learn as much about this condition as possible. You can research it online, and you might also want to check out Whooshers.com, if you haven't done so already. There, you will find a lot of information and resources for people with PT, as well as success stories and other information.

You can also suggest to your partner that he should consider going to a doctor or specialist to get checked out, just to be sure it is not a fixable problem. If the cause can be identified, many times people have been cured, or at least helped, by medical intervention

Some things that have helped me cope with PT are exercise (keeping one's blood pressure as low as possible), following a good diet, and getting plenty of sleep at night. The sleep problems took time for me to work out, but I finally learned how to tune out the noise in my right ear by lying on the opposite side. I also take various supplements that help, such as a daily vitamin pill, magnesium glycinate, fish oil, and NAC (N-acetylcistene). He should experiment, and find some supplements that work for him. Some PT sufferers benefit from taking antidepressant drugs, but I preferred to take the more natural route.

Another thing he could do would be to try out a hearing aid. For some, hearing aids work to help block the tinnitus sound with white noise in the affected ear. He could try a 30-day free trial, to see if this might work for him.

I'm sure others will have additional suggestions for you. Again, thanks for caring and for wanting to learn more about this condition!

Best wishes,
Karen