Hello People...So   Mr DO CHOPPY    you are a writer  Author ?   The T  as you describe , since you said you stayed home all day till  your fiance  comes home .. i sense the T was bothering you more because you were alone and concentrating   on the T...  Yes alone in a quiet place makes the T seem louder when it really may not be.
What you  should do is get out of the house   and walk an hour . If your freezing you dress appropriately  , or
if you drive a car you should go to a mall  or shopping center  for an hour or two....Its all about distracting  your thinking  away from the T and keeping busy...  being with lots of people is what i like to  engage time with..I know
its more difficult in the winter with snow and ice and  below freezing temperatures .... Some people on here say their Tinnitus  was started by NOISE and DRUGS.......can i ask  what type of drugs you think was a cause? and i don't know if you read my article of last night , about ear plugs and a portable  radio.... listening to the radio  ,like music  on a comfortable  level for you is comforting  for your  T  , when you are alone in the HOUSE. if you can.t get out...I  watch TV  as my relaxing time only in the evening after i pick my wife up from work...It happens that  we are married  over 40 years , since i finished my tour of WAR service in Vietnam in 1968....That's where i  my Tinnitus.. IT was noise induced with mild hearing loss from firing the weapons on my right side., I've  had the bad T since  i returned in 1968.....I can report  , that ive been told the T gets worse and worse over time , and im telling you  that its NONSENSE ...   i basically  have the same T  all those years....Yes there are better days  when the T 
seems to lower  to be more tolerable  and there a few days  here and there that it gets a bit higher.... i think the higher days  is because of  some loud noise in some places , that i did not pay attention to nor have control over.I notice many younger people here In   New York  listen to i pod music  while traveling with white wire ear plugs.
I wonder how many of them  may have Tinnitus....Hearing aids  i think , can make the T get worse over time , since you have to adjust the sound , a bit louder to hear better... by adjusting the sound louder for hearing it will make the  T  louder and your hearing  with out  hearing aids  even worse....Ofcorse thats just my opinion  from being there and trying that etc etc.... Make sure you stay away from any form of ASPIRIN products as Aspirin elevates Tinnitus......I can tell you that you are younger than my 68 years going on 69.....and over the years you learn to some extent to TUNE out  or get used to the T.   it just happens and you worry less and less....i soppose its a natural  adjustment process.   For those that believe that have  falling to sleep issues from the T , you should ask your Doctor   for a sleeping  aid  that is not  addicting I heard of some people with issues from T , that  try accupuncture  , that helps the mind regulate the sleep against  the T..  you explain to the MD  your T issues and the accupuncture    my help  after several visits....I used it  years ago to reduce my anxiety   from the T and  to be relaxed ...It worked well   till the place  moved away.  Heres a funny thing to know  ive  been taking Ativan  10 mg in the early evening and later an Ambian  low dose   to get to sleep.....I found out that ive been on that dose for 30 years or so.....Ive been told ..lol   by the VA Md  not long ago who is giving me the same dose  from the VA pharmacy   , that the 2 meds im taking  are placebos  by now.... so the T and sleep issues  i am living with  i would do better  weening off  the placebos , as im falling to sleep sometimes on the couch lol with out any meds.....good luck ya.ll