I give my tinnitus an "F".
I'd like to give mine an "FU".
I'll just add to the above that loudness matching in general is a very poor predictor of how much a person will suffer.
I'm afraid I couldn't disagree more, Ed.
My (admittedly unscientific) source is this very forum, where threads pop up daily (hourly?) about people panicking because their T go louder, or because they are worried it will be louder after they do something (like take meds, go to a bar, drink alcohol, you name it). Just search the forum for "spike" and see for yourself how distressed people are wondering whether the increase in volume is permanent or not. They even forego medication (that they really need) in order to avoid the mere risk of an increase in volume.
Of course, my personal anecdotal evidence with just one data point also disagrees: the times I suffer most is when the T is the loudest, which is towards the end of the day for me.
You'll also find many posts where people state "if it was just half the volume I'd be so happy" or "I'd be able to function". Tons of reports about taking drugs that hopefully will lower the volume (even evil benzos): why would people be seeking a decrease in volume so bad?
I generally love to debunk "conventional wisdom" but the bulk of the evidence I find about this completely correlates volume and level of distress. I remember also reading it in a scientific study (which I can't find right now unfortunately - it wasn't the main topic of the study but it was a "side learning") and thinking "duh".
It's also completely logical from the physiological point of view: any stimulus associated with pain/suffering makes you suffer more when the intensity of the stimulus is increased. It's true of a needle poking you, of a headache, of stomach pain... I can't think of any example where this isn't true actually.
Granted, there is the occasional statement here and there that states volume doesn't matter, and it's usually by the people with the school of thought that "all you have to do is have no emotional reaction to it". When I hear that I want to tell them I'm going to stab their hand with a knife every 5 seconds and tell them to just not have any emotional reaction to it.
It seems like an innocuous statement, but I'm afraid it is perpetuated in clinical settings and through the medical profession, such that they feel there is no need to provide anything more than "psychological guidance" because, supposedly, your suffering (or not) is all under your control. So we end up getting from doctors what we're all too used to: "it'll get better with time, just don't think about it, put on a fan, get distracted, you're only suffering because you're reacting to it, many people live their lives full with it, you're magnifying its impact, it's really not such a big deal" etc.
And the thing is, they are not completely wrong in providing that advice: it suits the majority of sufferers because they have low volume T (as your own 70% statistic shows), not because volume/intrusiveness is irrelevant.
You sure that's Db SL Alue? That's almost unheard of. Something like 70% of cases are 6db or less.
Yes, and I wouldn't expect those 70% to be on this forum (unless some other pre-existing condition predisposes them to suffer from a mild form of T). This forum is mostly crowded with people who are having trouble with their T, I'd almost say "by definition". I'm not surprised to find people with extreme cases here, as in "two or three sigmas out in terms of severity".