Gay People with Tinnitus?

Welcome then! hahaha

 

@hoper do you have an archive of memes for every situation?

 

Gay man over here! Happily married too

 

Welcome Ricardo!
glad that you found a significant other

 

Hi
I'm a bisexual. Can I join?

 

Have you always been bisexual? Do you have a girlfriend?

 

I have a very long story to that. Would you be surprised if I tell you that my tinnitus is also caused from being a bi?

To answer your question, I have never been in a relationship with a woman but I have always wanted it. But I was so shy and naive. And little bit of stupid I was. God, I always loved women.

 

YES! How did being bi cause your tinnitus? Do you have a boyfriend? Maybe he would be open to having a woman to play with you two sometime! If that's not an inappropriate suggestion...

 

Yes, I have a boyfriend and I know he is straight. But I really doubt if there is a man existing to refuse two woman in a bed. Lol.

I grew up as a tomboy. I always loved to play soccer with my boyfriends. I refused to dress like a girl even when I was 5 or something. When I was in high school I used to fancy my woman teachers and I did not let myself to be in a relationship with a boy because I was so busy dreaming about women around me. Not in just a sexual way but more like being in love with them you know what I mean... After 4 years of high school then I attended college away from my family. I was supposed to be free but I never felt like I was.. Once again I wanted to be with women but I just couldn't. I don't know why. I never confessed myself that I was a bi. And then I was just 18 y/o I developed GAD and chronic insomnia. I had ti take 10 different SSRIs in 6 years. Last year all of those drugs stopped working and my doc prescribed me a benzo. Then I got my tinnitus. So

Being a bi but stupid at the same time+GAD+insomnia+benzos caused my tinnitus.

 

Ok so... doesn't it hurt to be bottom?

 

Well f*ck. I feel like I'm in love with my teacher and I have not even dated with a woman yet. She is almost 37 now and she is way too mature for me. She must have lots of gay experiences as much as my age

 

My female friend (20 years old) is in a relationship with a (also female 35 years old) teacher. They love each other and I don't think age matters as long its not like 20 years or more apart. They are a love couple. I just see a problem there with her being YOUR teacher. You know because of the student-teacher relationship. You know?

I mean sometimes I'd like to kiss my therapist as well. But mainly because of the patient-therapist relationship I know I can't do so.

 

I completely agree with you there. The relationship between teacher and student can be risky. But there is more to this story. My BFF is also in love with her and she is more brave than me that they had a meeting two weeks ago in my fav pub. I wish I was not a coward.

 

But you already have a boyfriend? Don't cheat on him...

 

I won't. I'm just confused

 

I wouldn't know.

 

I am all kinds of LGBT...I don't think I fit any label well. Pan, genderfluid, are probably what best describe me, but even those labels are limited and I can easily find myself existing above and beyond them. LGBT labels cower and run when they try to go after me. Anything possible under the sun I guess.

 

Not sure if I'm bi but I wouldn't mind going out with a female. I also wouldn't mind have intercourse with them either. But I'm not attracted to them sexually. I just find them physically pleasing to look at. I guess I'm experiential? But I am on the asexual spectrum. Can't really tell yet since I'm still young.

 

@Kazue

Well, if you are on the ace spectrum it may or may not change. Guess you are right in that you will have to wait in the long run. Sexuality is a fluid thing, even if one stays in the gray zone for the most of it.

Also, small correction on terminology that you should probably use "woman identified people" instead of "female people". Not everyone who is assigned female at birth identifies as a woman, as you know. Not to be obnoxious but it is always good to use non-body terms when describing another gender (even if a person in question is cisgender or does not have preferred gender pronouns) when it comes to concepts about gender. We are going through an age of change where we have to switch our minds to have more respect for the inner person and not the body they were born into.

 

@Coyotesheaven

When I say males, I meant biological males and people who consider themselves males. When I say females, I mean biological females and people who consider themselves females. I fully respect people who don't feel like they're in the right body or doesn't feel like fit in as a certain gender. Sorry for that misunderstanding.

 

This was funny and kind of fits this thread...

 

Hi

 

I used to be a gay man without tinnitus and wish to become again one.

 

Awh man, I understand you.
But life goes on, and it's still beautiful.

 

I'm vegan.

 

Is that another way to say you like the eggplant emoji? Just kidding.

 

Hi @Mario martz. I do not fall into the LGBT group, but if you add the "QIA", I fall under "A". Anyways, welcome to our community. I'm sorry that the main qualification to join is tinnitus, but I'm glad you are here.