Yes because of this shit, since it started in 2005 I didn't make her life happy as I used to do. Am alone now, no wife, no sons, she has right. Why tinnitus didn't divorce me. Ok my god wanted this for me.
I'm so sorry to hear this. Keep the bond strong with your children with shared accsess. Let's hope you find the happiness you deserve also and your ears calm down for you. Love glynis x
@Stakovic Hang in there besides T Divorce to me is the second toughest thing I have dealt with in my life....Its another one of those things people tell you to get over it but truly don't know how difficult it is until they been through it. Give yourself time to heal your mind and heart and you'll be Ok my friend. We are here to help please take care of yourself. Be Strong
@Stakovic hang in there. I'm sorry this happened but you should stay in contact with your boys and keep them close. You will find happiness again. I know it doesn't seem like it right now but you will.
Indeed it can @vermillion, but don't tell anyone outside of this forum because they don't want to know.
Thank you guys , your messages make me strong.I used to be strong ,I have to built my life again I am only 45 years old. today is just a nigthmare but tommorow will be a dream.
Sorry for this ordeal, marriage while having tinnitus is a challenge. Stay strong and take it easy...
I'm very sorry to hear this. T and h are bad enough to live with then have your wife leave you because of it is horrible. I came very very close to losing my wife. Try the best you can to keep your head up man.
One day at a time .. Sometimes, one moment at a time .. Eventually, as the days turn into weeks into months, you will get your life back .. In the meantime, you have all of us here .. We care about you. Stay connected with your friends and sons. Do nice things for yourself. You will move past this painful time... And find your happy place again. Im so sorry for your loss.
Life is a journey, you met your wife and had a family, your son's are part of you and will always be. Think positive, be positive, take each step as it comes, life is a marathon, something which you can't sprint through.
@Stakovic Assuming your wife was the same age you can "upgrade" to a much younger one - not a bad deal honestly . I'd say 25 years is about enough being with the same person .. I lasted a good 10 and was ready for a change Hit the gym hard, work on your looks and fashion , and get setup on internet dating sites and before you know it you will be all set with new dates It may take some time before a new one but the fun is in the journey not just the destination Getting busy trying to get dates and such is a great way to forget about T
I agree wholeheartedly. Just be careful you don't get a gold digger after all that hard work. Don't mean to be cynical but when she's ready to change you out it's all about the money and what she can get. When the lawyers are finished with you, you won't have much left. Just be careful and don't get hooked up with someone that's has nothing!
