I'm Going to End It

My friend, I really hope this is true for you, but experience tells me never to take what women say at face value. It all depends on how bad is your condition and how it affects your relationship vs how well you are off financially and stable.

 

Perhaps nobodoy disowned you because nobody "ownded" you in the first place?
You are actively looking for a girlfriend right now right?

 

Nah, not really...They don't want me lol.

 

And why do you think they "dont want you" exactly ? lol
I think you are about to prove my point haha

 

You make it sound so romantic how can you possibly be single?

 

I don't know? Must be something? I could be my looks, or something else lol

 

Its not your looks, I can assure you.
Do you have a job?
Are you in school for a lucrative career?
What are your goals at the moment?

 

I'm 24, I finished school and college ages ago. My goals, don't have any. I'll start looking for a job when I'm not depressed anymore. But even then women won't be wooed lol

 

See this is a perfect example of women mentality and not taking the at face value....lol. What you see is NOT what you get haha.
What exactly does this question mean? Is it baiting me to divulge my personal relationship status?
Is it just being sarcastic?

 

Don't over think it Dan I was just messing with ya

 

I beg to differ! Women will be lining up once you land a good job.
Why are you surprised right now? You just said yourself you have no goals and no job and not even looking! So if this is what you gonna answer on a first date to where you are in life right now, you can kiss getting laid goodbye lol.

 

Yes I realize that, but thats what women do! they mess with ya ....

 

I wish! Used to have a job but they still didn't care lol!

 

What kind of job?
Also you must know how to present yourself (i.e. make you interesting and attractive....like a shiny new fishing lure)
Its all very complex. There are many factors and variables. There should be a computer program written for this. But my point I was trying to make is as a whole, those things I said matter most in a long term prospective- not talking about just getting laid here. How to get laid is another topic....

 

Agree. But I would take it one step further and generalize it to both sexes and the majority of people in this world who have no clue about the true mechanisms that underpin many aspects of our lives. My own directness often leaves people annoyed. I tend to think of the following quote when that happens...



The reality of the human being mindset is that it is more convenient to view the world through rose-tinted glasses.

Apparently.

attheegeofscience
20/MAY/2015.

 

The Schwerer Gustav has rolled out. I am a cap gun compared to the almight ATEOS!

 

Well, I worked sales representative. And women didn't find that interesting lol Anyway, getting laid isn't my goal having a family is.

 

@Danny Boy maybe is because you talk about keppra all the time lol jk

 

Lol, must be.

 

My wife runs her own business. She and her family have much more money than I have.
It would have been so easy for her kicking me outside of her house - although I did everything for her and my family , and T was probably a result of that (burnout). She said we promised each other being there in good and bad times, and this will be until we die. So this is true love. In the meantime she needs me for her struggle with cancer, too. We are both "damaged". I really don't know where this all ends. Me with severe T and depression, her with cancer.
Life is tough. Sorry for going off-topic.
I think that people must be there for each other - in good and bad times. The big problem with T is, you don't know when and if at all the bad time ends.

 

Even so! The things women look for family man material are the things I said.
Keep in mind that you are now only 23 years old. I think age plays an important role.
I mean how many 19 year old girls are thinking about starting a family? lol
Your age is really the getting laid age lol.

 

Symbiosis.

 

Agreed. Also if your wife/gf cannot see you suffering 24/7.
Than it becomes difficult for everyone. People must protect themselves.
So I try living as normal as possible with a dentist drill in my head.

 

That is the best strategy to keep shit together.

 

Could be. But is not much helpful for depression if you suffer with T, wife has cancer and you have two young kids.
But I guess you know what I mean.

 

Question is only how long this works and when the next shit hits you.
I cannot take more.

 

Well, maybe a lady the same age will be better.

 

Totally agree...She must've not loved me surely. Nobody she leave when he's at his weakest.

 

I am sorry she has cancer, it is very sad to hear. I hope her treatment is working.
Also I must add that the new generation of young people have different values and mentality than the 60's generation of "thru thick and thin"....and it is only getting worse as our economy crumbles and times get harder to earn a good living.

 

Look from my experience, as another poster mentioned, having a sharp sense of humor and be able to make a woman laugh at a whim, is the BEST ammunition. If you dont have that, you are going to have to make it up in otherways hahahaha....
Ironic isnt it? That laughter is the best weapon but tinnitus is friggin depressing as heck.