Lost My Mom Last Night

Discussion in 'Support' started by Dginobile, Jun 9, 2018.

    1. Dginobile

      Dginobile Member

      Tinnitus Since:
      12/2017
      Cause of Tinnitus:
      Unknown, Satan perhaps?
      My mom passed last night from Cancer.

      I was by her side and held her hand until she took her last breath. She was young so I’m angry this happened to her but I’m at peace knowing she is at peace, however she was my SUPPORT system especially throughout this tinnitus experience and now she is gone and I am terrified I am going to move backwards.

      I’ve been in a good place but today my ears are loud which is to be expected.

      I am praying God gives me peace during this time.
       
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    2. Bill Bauer
      No Mood

      Bill Bauer Member Hall of Fame

      Tinnitus Since:
      February, 2017
      Cause of Tinnitus:
      Acoustic Trauma
      I am so sorry that you had to live through that. My dad passed away from brain cancer at the age of 47 when I was 20. He got his diagnosis when he was 42.

      All I can say is that it gets better.

      Try to fight your negative thoughts...
       
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    3. New Guy
      Doh

      New Guy Member Benefactor

      Tinnitus Since:
      3/18
      Cause of Tinnitus:
      Noise Induced Hearing Loss
      @Dginobile

      I'm so sorry for your loss. Losing a parent is so difficult. I hope you're granted some peace.
       
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    4. Luman
      Benevolent

      Luman Member Benefactor Hall of Fame

      Location:
      Brooklyn
      Tinnitus Since:
      07/2017
      Cause of Tinnitus:
      Intermittent Tinnitus probably noise induced
      I'm very sorry to hear this. Grief is a very, very difficult process. Your love for, and fond memories of, your mother will always stay with you.
       
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    5. fishbone
      Shitfaced

      fishbone Member Hall of Fame

      Tinnitus Since:
      1988
      Cause of Tinnitus:
      loud noise and very bad sickness
      God bless her soul. Heaven just gained a new angel :)

      You always got us, we will support you as much as we can. Possibly you can talk to a grief counselor and piece your life together. You'll be in my thoughts and prayers :)
       
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    6. AUTHOR
      AUTHOR
      Dginobile

      Dginobile Member

      Tinnitus Since:
      12/2017
      Cause of Tinnitus:
      Unknown, Satan perhaps?
      Thank you so much everyone ❤️
       
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    7. Samantha R

      Samantha R Member Podcast Patron Benefactor Ambassador

      Location:
      Geelong Australia
      Tinnitus Since:
      07/2016
      Cause of Tinnitus:
      Unknown
      @Dginobile
      I am so very sorry for your loss. Please accept my sincere condolences.
      May your mum rest easy, free from pain.
      Lots of love,
      Sam. x
       
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    8. glynis
      Feminine

      glynis Member Benefactor Ambassador Hall of Fame

      Tinnitus Since:
      2004
      Cause of Tinnitus:
      Meniere's Disease
      @Dginobile ,
      I'm sorry to hear about your mum and I like you I sat at my patrents bedside till slipped away.
      You need time to grieve and your emotions could spike your tinnitus but will settle.
      Next week will be a year for my mum and lost my dad just before that.
      We are here for you any time and are thoughts and prayers are with you and your family....
      love glynis xxx
       
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    9. Julryan

      Julryan Member

      Tinnitus Since:
      May 24 2018
      Cause of Tinnitus:
      Tobramycin
      So sorry to hear that. I lost my mom a few months ago. I understand the pain. Let yourself grieve and feel all the emotions. Sending hugs and same as the rest of us have posted we are always here to listen. So so very sorry.
       
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    10. Ed209

      Ed209 Member Podcast Patron Benefactor Ambassador Hall of Fame

      Tinnitus Since:
      07/2015
      My thoughts go out to you :huganimation:
       
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    11. emmalee
      No Mood

      emmalee Member Benefactor Hall of Fame

      Tinnitus Since:
      03/2018
      Cause of Tinnitus:
      ?
      I am so very sorry for your loss.:huganimation:Your dear Mom will live on forever in your memories.
       
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    12. TracyJS

      TracyJS Member Benefactor

      Location:
      Illinois
      Tinnitus Since:
      2/2018
      Cause of Tinnitus:
      Acoustic trauma
      I’m so very sorry for your loss. :huganimation:
       
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    13. Michellejean

      Michellejean Member

      Location:
      Maine
      Tinnitus Since:
      03/1/18
      Cause of Tinnitus:
      Virus/ no clue
      I am sorry for your loss. Losing a mother, a parent, is never painless. We are all here to hold you and support you as long as you need us. Sending you peace.
       
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      AUTHOR
      Dginobile

      Dginobile Member

      Tinnitus Since:
      12/2017
      Cause of Tinnitus:
      Unknown, Satan perhaps?
      Thank you
       
    15. Tinker Bell

      Tinker Bell Member Hall of Fame

      Location:
      U.S.
      Tinnitus Since:
      02/2017
      Cause of Tinnitus:
      SSHL from virus
      I am so sorry for your loss, @Dginobile. Sending hugs and hoping you find strength and comfort in warm memories.
       
    16. dayma
      Pacman

      dayma Member Benefactor

      Tinnitus Since:
      1/6/2018
      Cause of Tinnitus:
      UNKNOWN
      @Dginobile I am sorry for your loss. I can't imagine losing someone right now that is my main support system.

      Maybe it would be good to see a therapist to have someone that will listen to you? It does not replace anyone or replace the need for day to day friends but it is a good start in your time of need.
       
    17. Starthrower
      Wtf

      Starthrower Member Benefactor Ambassador Hall of Fame

      Tinnitus Since:
      January 2002
      Cause of Tinnitus:
      Dental Surgery
      @Dginobile May the harmony your two souls created together continue to live on through your love for people in your life.

      I know she felt your love as she passed away. What a precious gift you gave to her.
       
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    18. annV
      Fine

      annV Member Benefactor

      Tinnitus Since:
      2005
      Cause of Tinnitus:
      unknown - possibly hereditary
      I agree, lovely message you wrote
       
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    19. Jcb
      No Mood

      Jcb Member Benefactor Hall of Fame

      Location:
      UK
      Tinnitus Since:
      December 2017
      Cause of Tinnitus:
      possible TMJ, came on after severe cold and chest infection,
      I’m so so sorry, losing any loved one can be soul destroying. It may get worse before it gets better, that being said I’m a huge believer in time will heal the hurt you just need to go through the motions of grief. She’s at peace now and I know it’s not the same as having somebody there in person but somebody will always be on here to listen and support you.
       
    20. MBH

      MBH Member

      Location:
      Upstate NY
      Tinnitus Since:
      06/2017
      Cause of Tinnitus:
      Overloaded stress
      Deepest sympathy, so sorry for your loss.
       
    21. Rajin

      Rajin Member Benefactor

      Location:
      PA
      Tinnitus Since:
      9/7/17
      Cause of Tinnitus:
      Hearing loss ,noise
      My sympathy to you and your family.
       
    22. Mario martz
      Creative

      Mario martz Member

      Tinnitus Since:
      02/2016
      You have this community to support you!!!
      im so sorry to hear about your loss, you are in my prayers tonight
      just know that it will get better, and now you need to continue with your mothers legacy
       
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