I am a open-minded person who has searched for truth on countless subjects throughout my life, including this one. I just come up completely empty-handed on religion. I was married to a Christian and was immersed in her families beliefs for over 20 years and nothing. Read their Bible with them, went to their churches, sat as they prayed before meals. Like @Stuart-T, I think that the Bible is a fine piece of work and, despite some of the content like beating slaves, it has many good ideas put forth to its readers. Where I just cannot square the whole thing is the endless mass death and suffering at the hands of other human beings. The Jews during WWII, Rwanda, the women and children of the Ukraine now. All the talk of free will and the devil still leaves us with killing on the level of a million people for sport or in the name of some God, hatred of fellow man, monumental intolerance and racism, etc. To me the whole story line looks reverse engineered to fit the long-standing human condition.
As I always say, if you're not hurting anyone ,then I'm good with what someone else believes and if it brings you comfort, then I am glad for you, but as I look throughout my life, I see a roughly equal amount of misery, happiness, early physical suffering, longevity, good and bad behavior, contentment, fear, and so on in both camps. It just doesn't seem to make any difference here on earth which is all I can see and understand. The big differences are all supposed to be in the afterlife, something nobody can ever verify by definition.
As I always say, if you're not hurting anyone ,then I'm good with what someone else believes and if it brings you comfort, then I am glad for you, but as I look throughout my life, I see a roughly equal amount of misery, happiness, early physical suffering, longevity, good and bad behavior, contentment, fear, and so on in both camps. It just doesn't seem to make any difference here on earth which is all I can see and understand. The big differences are all supposed to be in the afterlife, something nobody can ever verify by definition.
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Jesus rebuked the Pharisees for their religion. Religion doesn't save anyone. There are plenty of extremes, charlatans, false Christs, false teachers, wolves in sheep's clothing, peddlers of the Gospel. Bro, trust me, there are so many people trotting around professing that they are Christians, and they are not. Right now I am trying to convince some of my Christian friends of some of the "new" teachings that is spreading in Christianity, they show the same characteristics I mentioned above, but are deceived and acting fools. No wonder why unbelievers think we're nuts!
Amen, amen, amen! My husband was personally turned off by some of the things that he had seen going on in church and said, "This is Christianity? I'm out!" I was going to our current church solo for many years until my husband finally started digging in to what the Word says about how we should live, what "the church" should look like, etc. etc. etc. on his own. Praise God, my husband is a dedicated believer now.
We disagree with some of the ways we see our church ran, and have come to some different conclusions than our Pastors, but all in all, we have pretty biblically sound Pastors and for that I am appreciative cause there is so much extremism and insanity out there being taught.
Thank you for the apology but it's not your fault! All of these things work together for the good of those who love God, it all conforms us into the image of His son, if we let it. (Romans 8:28-29) Nobody has to tip toe around me, I'm not easily offended. The Bible tells us that we will be hated for His name's sake, so I'm prepared for it. What's crazy to me is that I'm finding so-called Christians "persecuting" Bible believing Christians even more than unbelievers currently! I knew the world would hate us, but I had no idea it would be "in the house of God!" I suppose the wheat and the tare are supposed to grow together. I'm having an easier time with non-Christians than with actual Christians right now. I'm just here to share my testimony and hope that somebody bites!
Oh, glorious day! Amen.