What's the Point? No Matter What I Try to Do, I Will FOREVER Have My Tinnitus and Hyperacusis...

Discussion in 'Support' started by Christophe_85, Aug 15, 2017.

    1. AUTHOR
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      Christophe_85
      Alone

      Christophe_85 Member Benefactor

      Location:
      Geneva, Switzerland
      Tinnitus Since:
      November 2015
      Cause of Tinnitus:
      Not sure...
      What did he propose as solutions for Hyperacousis ? :)
       
    2. Foncky
      Tired

      Foncky Member Benefactor

      Location:
      Europe
      Tinnitus Since:
      March 2004
      Cause of Tinnitus:
      Music. Balloon. Genes.
      What did he do for your H ?
       
    3. AUTHOR
      AUTHOR
      Christophe_85
      Alone

      Christophe_85 Member Benefactor

      Location:
      Geneva, Switzerland
      Tinnitus Since:
      November 2015
      Cause of Tinnitus:
      Not sure...
      Up...

      I am wondering how I can be positive with this shit in my head... :(

      And it is difficult to cope with this and to do all the things in life like the Work and all the things at home !
       
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    4. AUTHOR
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      Christophe_85
      Alone

      Christophe_85 Member Benefactor

      Location:
      Geneva, Switzerland
      Tinnitus Since:
      November 2015
      Cause of Tinnitus:
      Not sure...
      Fuck my life !!!!

      How life can be this horrible ???

      And it can get worse... this is the worst part...
       
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    5. Marlino
      Cowboy

      Marlino Member

      Location:
      Germany
      Tinnitus Since:
      02/2016
      Cause of Tinnitus:
      unknown
      Salut Christophe,

      I feel with you.
      I‘m currently in holiday and having one bad day after another.
      Bad days mean I hear the t as soon as I’m not heavilly distracted, this means even in a noisy car at high speed with music on. So I cannot enjoy the holiday at all, not a single day so far.
      When a bird sings I faintly remember the feeling how easing and relieving this was to me prior to this.

      Maybe you want to tell why your life is so cruel at the moment and how your T is giving you a bad time?
       
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    6. Bill Bauer
      No Mood

      Bill Bauer Member Hall of Fame

      Tinnitus Since:
      February, 2017
      Cause of Tinnitus:
      Acoustic Trauma
      You live in Switzerland. At least you have that going for you.
       
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    7. threefirefour
      Peeping tom

      threefirefour Member Benefactor Hall of Fame

      Location:
      California
      Tinnitus Since:
      5/15/16
      Cause of Tinnitus:
      140dB B R U H moment
      I'd give my left arm to live there...
       
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    8. vermillion
      Whistles

      vermillion Member Podcast Patron Benefactor

      Tinnitus Since:
      2016
      Cause of Tinnitus:
      Fluconazole
      Or to be tinnitus free. Just raising the standards...
       
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    9. threefirefour
      Peeping tom

      threefirefour Member Benefactor Hall of Fame

      Location:
      California
      Tinnitus Since:
      5/15/16
      Cause of Tinnitus:
      140dB B R U H moment
      True I could move to Switzerland if I Really want to, but not get rid of this...
       
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    10. vermillion
      Whistles

      vermillion Member Podcast Patron Benefactor

      Tinnitus Since:
      2016
      Cause of Tinnitus:
      Fluconazole
      At least moving there doesn't require to loose your left hand. Not that you could be tinnitus free though by loosing it, but you get to read many similar statements of people that are willing to exchange their limbs for silence.
       
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    11. AUTHOR
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      Christophe_85
      Alone

      Christophe_85 Member Benefactor

      Location:
      Geneva, Switzerland
      Tinnitus Since:
      November 2015
      Cause of Tinnitus:
      Not sure...
      Many people from here, Switzerland, would love to live in California... ;)
       
    12. AUTHOR
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      Christophe_85
      Alone

      Christophe_85 Member Benefactor

      Location:
      Geneva, Switzerland
      Tinnitus Since:
      November 2015
      Cause of Tinnitus:
      Not sure...
      Yes we have a good quality of life here... But also everything is expensive !

      And I have to live in a small appartment because the rent is very expensive...

      And regarding Tinnitus it doesn't change anything...
       
    13. AUTHOR
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      Christophe_85
      Alone

      Christophe_85 Member Benefactor

      Location:
      Geneva, Switzerland
      Tinnitus Since:
      November 2015
      Cause of Tinnitus:
      Not sure...
      Hello Marlino,

      Thank you for your message... :)

      Are you still on Holidays ? Can you enjoy and rest ?

      The thing is that I have other points to manage in my life, a body which is very tired and I have troubles with my joints, also due to tensions...

      I am quite depressed since many years, to me it is quite hard to get up every morning to go to work...

      But I know that I eat too much sugar these days... So I calm down the sugar from today ! I have to ! Otherwise I will get very depressed again... :(
       
    14. Bill Bauer
      No Mood

      Bill Bauer Member Hall of Fame

      Tinnitus Since:
      February, 2017
      Cause of Tinnitus:
      Acoustic Trauma
      Isn't that matched with your higher salaries?
      Would you be able to fix this problem if you were willing to take longer time (e.g., 45 minutes) to commute to work?
      Others have T AND don't live in Switzerland. ;)
       
    15. AUTHOR
      AUTHOR
      Christophe_85
      Alone

      Christophe_85 Member Benefactor

      Location:
      Geneva, Switzerland
      Tinnitus Since:
      November 2015
      Cause of Tinnitus:
      Not sure...
      Yes but it doesn't change anything about T...
       
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    16. threefirefour
      Peeping tom

      threefirefour Member Benefactor Hall of Fame

      Location:
      California
      Tinnitus Since:
      5/15/16
      Cause of Tinnitus:
      140dB B R U H moment
      Aside from the climate it's not that great. Expensive housing too.
       
    17. AUTHOR
      AUTHOR
      Christophe_85
      Alone

      Christophe_85 Member Benefactor

      Location:
      Geneva, Switzerland
      Tinnitus Since:
      November 2015
      Cause of Tinnitus:
      Not sure...
      Yes but the climate here in Switzerland is quite cold and grey... Not every day but quite a big part of the year...

      And people get depressed about it, especially at the end of the year...

      I think for the same salary in California you buy a house and in Switzerland you just rent a small appartment... ;)

      Also the way of life I think is maybe better in California... ?
       
    18. AUTHOR
      AUTHOR
      Christophe_85
      Alone

      Christophe_85 Member Benefactor

      Location:
      Geneva, Switzerland
      Tinnitus Since:
      November 2015
      Cause of Tinnitus:
      Not sure...
      I have a difficult week... I find it quite long and I am tired !

      Stressful day at work and I eat too much sugar since long time... I need to calm down !
       
    19. Bill Bauer
      No Mood

      Bill Bauer Member Hall of Fame

      Tinnitus Since:
      February, 2017
      Cause of Tinnitus:
      Acoustic Trauma
      California is awesome, but it is my understanding that the state government has been having financial problems. In the long run, it might end up not being a good place to live.
       
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    20. fishbone
      Shitfaced

      fishbone Member Hall of Fame

      Tinnitus Since:
      1988
      Cause of Tinnitus:
      loud noise and very bad sickness
      I can say this much, you might always have the tinnitus...but there is some hope for hyperacusis . I had horrible hyperacusis for close to 4 years, in the early years of my tinnitus ordeal. I went to a professional audiologist and it was a bit pricey and it did take close to 8-12 months of treatment. It was worth every penny for me and my quality of life improved a lot.

      Don't ever lose hope, things can get better :)
       
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    21. Luman
      Benevolent

      Luman Member Benefactor Hall of Fame

      Location:
      Brooklyn
      Tinnitus Since:
      07/2017
      Cause of Tinnitus:
      Intermittent Tinnitus probably noise induced
      This (above) is very good advice.

      Working with CBT, with a therapist, can really help patients to feel better, in a relatively short period of time, but it has been conclusively shown that people who use only CBT books can benefit greatly, as well. CBT is one of the most common forms of therapy used today, and is widely considered to be a very effective method of learning how to cope with all kinds of problems, including tinnitus.

      Get the book that maltese recommends, Feeling Good, and if you can, one of Dr. Burns' other books, The Feeling Good Handbook. I have both, and am currently working my way through them, using the step by step instructions. You must do the written exercises, and incorporate the concepts into your mind. You can change the way you think, behave and feel, for the better.
       
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    22. Kate Winstol
      Sporty

      Kate Winstol Member

      Tinnitus Since:
      1902
      Saying schizophrenia gets cured is as wrong as it can be. We don't even understand the brain guys, how could we possible expect there to be cures, it would have to be like antibiotics (when a scientist discovered antibiotic by an accident).
       
    23. AUTHOR
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      Christophe_85
      Alone

      Christophe_85 Member Benefactor

      Location:
      Geneva, Switzerland
      Tinnitus Since:
      November 2015
      Cause of Tinnitus:
      Not sure...
      Now it is bad to live there ?

      No work ?
       
    24. AUTHOR
      AUTHOR
      Christophe_85
      Alone

      Christophe_85 Member Benefactor

      Location:
      Geneva, Switzerland
      Tinnitus Since:
      November 2015
      Cause of Tinnitus:
      Not sure...
      Thank you for your message !

      Yes I think Tinnitus is for life but indeed the clearly worst part is the Hyperacousis !

      I am not sure if we have this kind of specialists here in Switzerland, they all seem so lost in front of this trouble...
       
    25. Paulmanlike

      Paulmanlike Member Benefactor Hall of Fame

      Tinnitus Since:
      2008
      Cause of Tinnitus:
      Noise
      I never said you can cure it I said some of the symptoms can be controlled
       
    26. AUTHOR
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      Christophe_85
      Alone

      Christophe_85 Member Benefactor

      Location:
      Geneva, Switzerland
      Tinnitus Since:
      November 2015
      Cause of Tinnitus:
      Not sure...
      Last Friday, I was going to rent a car with a shuttle bus... And when I just went out of the bus, there was a very loud comprimed air coming out the engine, it was very loud ! :(

      And I was just next to it...

      I hope it didn't make my Tinnitus worse...
       
    27. AUTHOR
      AUTHOR
      Christophe_85
      Alone

      Christophe_85 Member Benefactor

      Location:
      Geneva, Switzerland
      Tinnitus Since:
      November 2015
      Cause of Tinnitus:
      Not sure...
      I cannot avoid all the very loud noises !!!
       
    28. Bill Bauer
      No Mood

      Bill Bauer Member Hall of Fame

      Tinnitus Since:
      February, 2017
      Cause of Tinnitus:
      Acoustic Trauma
      This is the reason I wear ear plugs or ear muffs when I am outside...
       
    29. AUTHOR
      AUTHOR
      Christophe_85
      Alone

      Christophe_85 Member Benefactor

      Location:
      Geneva, Switzerland
      Tinnitus Since:
      November 2015
      Cause of Tinnitus:
      Not sure...
      I can understand, but to me if I put all the time my earplugs on, my T is very strong inside my head... :(

      And I don't want to do this actually...

      But in the other side, I cannot avoid all loud noises... Especially "surprise" loud noises... :(
       
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    30. VRZ78

      VRZ78 Member Benefactor

      Tinnitus Since:
      08/2016
      Cause of Tinnitus:
      Viral Infection
      Have you try listening to some pink noise for your H ?
       
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